Then wear the gold hat, if that will move her;
If you can bounce high, bounce for her too,
Till she cry "Lover, gold-hatted, high-bouncing lover,
I must have you!"
Thomas Parke D’Invilliers
well im going abit loopy at the moment. by the 21st i have to decide which uni im going to. the two im deciding between are on different sides of the county basically. sorry to dump as i know there is nothing anyone else can do, but wow, im just not old enough for a decision this big.
the problem is more that i got accepted to a university that i believed was way beyond my capabilities and i applied for as a joke. and the other is the one that i had planned to go to as most of my friends and people i know go their along with most of the people from my area. im going to the campus of the surprise one tomorrow, and im just nervous.
It's ok to be nervous it's something new a big step as well take your time look around you may find you like it, your friends will always be your friends no matter what Uni you go to and you will always make more friends no matter which one you go to have you been to the other one already then?
yeah i know it's big. You can try not to stress your self out about it if you can enjoy looking round tomorrow and then see how you feel about them, it could be as simple as you go and you either like it or hate so makes up your mind or it could be on a par at which point you need to see what the pros compared to the cons are (hard yes but if you need a hand you know where we are)
Then wear the gold hat, if that will move her;
If you can bounce high, bounce for her too,
Till she cry "Lover, gold-hatted, high-bouncing lover,
I must have you!"
Thomas Parke D’Invilliers
I've been scouring the internet looking for somewhere to vent it out. The black dog has been nipping at me for a long...long time.
As a man, you're not supposed to have these feelings, you're supposed to suck it up and move on with your life. There is so much help out there for women, but for men you're just **** out of luck.
Basically I'm pissed off. I'm so pissed its depressing me. I'm sick of women shitting all over me because I'm a nice guy, and not the passive aggressive nice guy a lot of people who claim that. I'm actually open and honest about my feelings to women, and I'm prompt about it. Sure my forwardness nets me a few relationships, but in the end the story always ends the same. They get tired of me because I'm "boring" so they go off with some biker/drug dealer/thug/ect. who treats them like garbage and beats them, then they come crawling back to me wanting my sympathy. Oh he gave you a black eye? Well its a god damn shame that nice guys like me don't "Do it" for you then isn't it bitch? If you stayed with me you'd not be in this position right now, and you'd certainly not have a black eye. **** you.
****, the gal that's interested in my right now is the worst, She keeps coming around and making me feel like ****. I DON'T ****ING WANT HER but she just keeps coming around. I'm sorry you whore, I don't want to take care of your little bastard child who you have no idea WHO the ****ing father is. I'm not your ****ing meal ticket and saying that I'm "Not a real man" because I won't take care of the little **** is a sure fire way for me to make me want you even less. The bad boy who you ****ed around with and got pregnant with his worthless spawn got to have you when you were at your best and now you want me to take care of you when you're all used up? **** you.
I hate the perpetuation of this myth of white male power. I can't even get a god damn job because I'm not some kind of minority in this economy. I've never oppressed anyone why the **** do I have to pay for the fact that other people were oppressed in the past. Don't I need to eat too? I need a god damn job just like everyone else and **** YOU for judging me based on the fact that I either have a dick or my skin is the wrong color. Why don't you judge me based on whether or not I can DO THE GOD DAMN JOB! **** YOU!
I hate the ****ing accusations I get for even hinting at this ****. I'm not a god damn racist for wanting to get a job over a minority because I have 5 years experience and a Bachelor's degree when he was 1 year experience and he has 1 year experience and a G.E.D., and I'm also not a god damn sexist for wanting to get a promotion over a woman who took 6 weeks off for paternity leave and has to leave early every Friday to pick up her other kid from piano practice or some ****. SHE made the choice to have those kids so SHE should be held responsible for them. I made the choice to NOT have a family so I could focus on my career and I WORKED MY ASS OFF the whole time she WASN'T EVEN THERE TO WORK and yet I'm a SEXIST because I WANT RECOGNITION? **** YOU!
I'm sick of all the double standards I'm held to. I have to be 10 times better at everything than everyone else to get 1/2 the recognition that they get and all because I'm a healthy, straight, white male. I'M HUMAN TOO GOD DAMN IT! CUT ME SOME GOD DAMN SLACK!
Doesn't surprise me this was glassed over, seems the same way everywhere I go. That was not an April fools post, and I'm just pissed off and needed a little support. Fine then...
Sorry ragaholic doubt anyone took it as an april fools post i haven't been online due to a lot of work of late. And you are more than welcome to vent here all you want. Yes the male stereotype is all around however it doesn't make you less male for wanting help or asking for it and those that judge because you asked are they really worth hanging around with because i bet they need help as well just don't dare ask.
Not all women want the bad guys or run off there are some nice girls after nice guys and im sure you will find one. As for the one that keeps coming round can you just not let her in?
Jobs are hard for everyone to find don't give up and im sure you will find one but you need to keep your chin up after all there are some people happy to live off the dole and give a lot of sterotypes bad names, it's just down to you to prove your not like everyone else and that you are the right man for the job.
No way in hell would I ever be with a single mother. I'm not being a meal ticket for some bastard kid who isn't mine. If she gives up the kid then sure, but not before.
