No idea what in the world to do :/ help?

[MistressOfMisery]

I used to have this friend. She lived next door to me, and spent everyday and night at my house. Then she moved, and I didnt really ever see her again, until i bumped into her at the shops, I didnt say anything. and then next day, as i was walking to school another friend told me she had died, been hit by a car. I kinda didnt know how to react or do.

That was about 3 years ago, I ran into her sister the other day, and today I saw a girl at the shops who looked exactly like her. I miss her, and dont know what to do. If I should go to her grave, or if I should just try and forget about it.


Another problems I may as well put here... My friend is in the mental hospital right now. He was inlove with me and tried to ruin mine and my girlfriends relationship. Everyone hates him atm, he hurt me so much, and now is in hospital. I dont know if i should go and visit him. I love him, hes my friend, but everytime I am with him it hurts, he hurts me.. and I have no-one to go with. He hurt my girlfriend so much i dont dare ask her to come with me, all my other friends are so sick of him, (he pretended he was going to kill himself a few times to make people worry) and I just, dont know what to do. Please help.

[staceyrawrcakes]

It's up to you at the end of the day what you do but I would go to her grave if you feel that that's the right thing to do. It might help you to come to terms with it more.
I'd go and visit your friend in hospital as well, to show him that you still care. He probably needs someone right now and it would probably make him feel terrible if no one came to see him.
It's up to you though what you do, hope you manage to work things out

[88shelz]

i agree. you should go and visit him. if he has been mentally ill then perhaps the illness caused whatever actions he carried out and he wasnt really aware of what he was doing.
if you wanna visit your friends grave then you should go. as said it might bring some closure for you. x