2nd miscarriage

broken heart · 19-10-2009, 07:07 PM

I went to the hospital last Thursday because i had cramps they did a scan and couldnt find my baby's heart, iv decided to have a natural miscarriage, my ex really isunt being supportive the exact oppasite infact and it hurts so much all i want is for him to tell me its going to b ok but he's just so angry and blames me, i feel so alone and i dont no what to do,

Kai-tan · 19-10-2009, 07:16 PM

I'm sorry your ex isn't being supportive. It isn't right for him to take his anger and pain out on you because you're hurting just as badly as him.
I really hope that you'll be okay, I know miscarriages are terrible to go through.
Just don't forget to take care of yourself physically as well as emotionally. It's important that you eat well and get rest, as hard as it is.

scary_go_round · 19-10-2009, 07:33 PM

Aw, honey.. s'horrible. It's always so difficult when you have to go through things like that on your own. I have a similar story myself, and the support really wasn't there. At least you know you have it on here! <3
Just remember though, that just because anger is the emotion topping out and being shown.. doesn't necessarily mean it's the driving one. Both parties mourn, and everyone shows it differently. Try not to take it to heart, he'll see things a little more clearly in time. Take care, and stay safe. *hugs*

broken heart · 19-10-2009, 10:48 PM

Thank u both for your reply's it helps to know that im not so alone after all xxx

Louise · 20-10-2009, 11:56 AM

I am so sorry this has happened to you, that must be horrible to got through, also it's not nice that your ex is blaming you. because you are hurting just has much as he is, maybe more. We are here for you and care.

Please take care
Louise x