That ex-boyfriends really really suck when you manage to get on and carry on with the whole "staying friends" thing for a few days and then they turn around and suddenly treat you like dirt and really make you cry :'(
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"I walked home alone that night. I didn't care how she got home, it was weird. I mean, I *liked* her, I liked her A LOT...but out there on the field, it was just different then. That was the last time I saw her. I mean, most people don't taste that kind of love- at least I tasted it once, right?"
Thats part of the problem!!! "things" have happened since we broke up. Infact I visited him (he's two hours away) for a weekend to hang out n see our rats we brought together that live at his n stuff, and "things" happened quite a few times. I know there is no chance of us getting back together. But he was my best friend for so long! His massive hissy fit he just had at me is the same as the ones he would when we were together anyway, so I'm used to them. But still. Grrrr.
Ex-boyfriends truely do suck.
"I walked home alone that night. I didn't care how she got home, it was weird. I mean, I *liked* her, I liked her A LOT...but out there on the field, it was just different then. That was the last time I saw her. I mean, most people don't taste that kind of love- at least I tasted it once, right?"
I know, I was a total idiot doing that. The whole weekend just felt so much like when we were together, we had such a good laugh, that I didn't really think anything of it.
Love is an amazing thing right? So why some times does it just really really...suck.
"I walked home alone that night. I didn't care how she got home, it was weird. I mean, I *liked* her, I liked her A LOT...but out there on the field, it was just different then. That was the last time I saw her. I mean, most people don't taste that kind of love- at least I tasted it once, right?"
It's a bitch if it isn't 100% right imo. Since you asked that question... it needs both of you to work. It's bloody obvious with him it isn't from what you told us. & to reiterate my previous point, it's just going to get more awkward if you stay friends with him.
I'm on really good terms with all of my ex's now, even though most of them MASSIVELY sucked for a few months/years after breaking up :)
I can't say that's true. I got some cheating ex's who did some MASSIVELY ****ed up stuff to me before I "snapped". They still suck and I'm pretty sure they always will.
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Originally Posted by Mr T
It's a bitch if it isn't 100% right imo. Since you asked that question... it needs both of you to work. It's bloody obvious with him it isn't from what you told us. & to reiterate my previous point, it's just going to get more awkward if you stay friends with him.
Listen to this man. Some people just will not work in a friendship after a relationship. It seems this is just one of those cases, it would be best for both of you to just not see each other for now.
I can't say that's true. I got some cheating ex's who did some MASSIVELY ****ed up stuff to me before I "snapped". They still suck and I'm pretty sure they always will.
Ah well, yes, there are always the exceptions who do nasty things to people who don't deserve it. Of course they suck....they don't deserve to even be remembered though :) xx
Ex boyfriends who abused you during the relationship but then come to find out wanted to take a break from you so they could try to go out with another girl, but if that didn't work out with her come right back to you really suck. Royally. /rant
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Ouch. That ex-boyfriend DEFINATLY does suck.
Did you tell him where to stick it?
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"I walked home alone that night. I didn't care how she got home, it was weird. I mean, I *liked* her, I liked her A LOT...but out there on the field, it was just different then. That was the last time I saw her. I mean, most people don't taste that kind of love- at least I tasted it once, right?"
that ex-boyfriends who have made you cry all day with minimal effort on their part now act as if nohing has happend suck.
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"I walked home alone that night. I didn't care how she got home, it was weird. I mean, I *liked* her, I liked her A LOT...but out there on the field, it was just different then. That was the last time I saw her. I mean, most people don't taste that kind of love- at least I tasted it once, right?"
I'm really grateful to be on excellent terms with my ex. He and I were friends before dating, we dated for a while, broke off mutually, but then we stopped talking for a year or more. Now we're best friends again and it's an amazing relationship. We've helped each other through SI and many other things.
"It's fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure."
-Bill Gates
Iwoul dlove that with my ex. But i dont thik i could deal with the nottalkin for a year thing. I've already lost someone I seriously love, i dont think i coul dhandle loosing my best friend too. (yes, no matter how much stupid anger i have toward him right now, he's stil my best friend, just one that has realllyyyyy pissed me off right now)
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"I walked home alone that night. I didn't care how she got home, it was weird. I mean, I *liked* her, I liked her A LOT...but out there on the field, it was just different then. That was the last time I saw her. I mean, most people don't taste that kind of love- at least I tasted it once, right?"
