not ment to be happy :(

[shivonie]

Why do I always feel like Im not ment to work or have a family or a husband it like I dont deserve to have a happy life. Its really gettin me down :( its like ive no purpose in life :(

[shadowfire]

The reason you might be feeling like this is because you do not value yourself as a person. You don't believe that you are good enough to lead a good life. But this is completely untrue. Everybody does, all you need to do is take a step back and look at all the good points about you. You need to realise that you are just as important as everybody else and you deserve happniess. The only person that can do this is you. i send good wishes

[shivonie]

Its a battle im lossin at the Min I dont know wat to do :(

[Passion112]

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Originally Posted by shivonie

Its a battle im lossin at the Min I dont know wat to do :(

First, to be sure, go to a local mental health clinic or place and tell them how you feel. Always rule out depression or a mental illness first.

If it's not a mental illness, just know that some paths we take in life are bumpy and rocky. Just hold and keep driving forward, and you'll get to the smoother parts.

Good luck! :)

[shivonie]

I am with a team amd the girl I have is crap the last time I talked
To her on the phone amd she said she is up to the eye balls with work and she would ring me back and im still waittin 2 weeks later. Im alone in the battle she thinks there is nothing wrong

[Passion112]

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Originally Posted by shivonie

I am with a team amd the girl I have is crap the last time I talked
To her on the phone amd she said she is up to the eye balls with work and she would ring me back and im still waittin 2 weeks later. Im alone in the battle she thinks there is nothing wrong

Do you have money to maybe to go another mental health clinic?

[ctried]

Your problems are very understandable. Even if it seems like your alone because the circle of people your surrounded IRL may be hard to connect with, there are a lot of people, especially here in RYL, who can sympathize with what your going through and what your struggle must be like.

Perhaps you can take some measure of solace in the fact that being able to relate to someone is the first step towards friendship, and friendship is the first step towards love. It might seem like the cards you've been dealt are a roadblock that prevent you from finding who you want, but the fact is that other people will have gotten dealt virtually the same cards, as well, so the odds of finding someone you "click" with may be greater then you think.

[shivonie]

Hi guys I know this is a old post but im still stufk here just wen I think things r gettin better they dont and only get worse I have finished with the girl I had I want to have someone to talk to but I dont want her again