Graphic - Guys, EmIlYxxxRoXxxx123 desperately needs our help

[Sophiethebutterfly]

She's had to deal with something no one should ever have to. As you may know, her mother was killed in a car accident almost a month ago. Now her father committed suicide this morning. She is under care right now and her aunt is stepping in to take over.

Please, let's flood her with our love and support. She needs all of it she can get. And please, let's encourage her to cooperate with her doctors, the hospital, and her relatives. Everybody loves her so much and wants the best for her, and she is a scared little girl right now.

We love you, Emily.

[Riku3323]

Emily,
I'm sooooooooooooooooooo sorry about what happened...I don't know what all I can do, and I'm not sure if you're religious or not but I WILL pray for you...again I'm sooooooo sorry about what happened

[crazykat]

I'm sorry for your loss hun, hold in there you will get through this

[getting_by]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss honey and all the hurt you have to endure- please try to stay strong and safe sweetie, for your sister and for yourself. We are all here for you hun- Take care xx

[Rex27]

Awh Emily i'm so sorry to hear this. :'(
I know you have been struggling but things can only get better. Just keep thinking about that mushroom haircut we talked about!
I'm here if you need me but you know that.
Chin up chin, we are here for you.

[Uglyducklin]

Hi Emily I dont know you but I am so sorry for your loss and I am thinking of you. I lost my dad a few years ago it was the most painful thing please pm if it would help. Hugsxx

[EmilyTHEgreat]

thanks guys i appreciate it... but i dont know what to do... theres not much i can do... this is so painful im so numb with everything, it hurts so bad but nothing i will do is going to cheer me up at all

[Sophiethebutterfly]

We are here for you.

[EmilyTHEgreat]

i know you are and i really appreciate it so much but like i said im at a loss of words with everything to be honest i cry myself to sleep and you know i just cant deal with it im so scared of whats happening and im not looking forward to anything

[SilentBob]

Im so sorry for you loss, i will hold you in my prayers, if you need anything let us know

[EmilyTHEgreat]

if anyone can maybe just help me find some hope because im as hopeless as it comes.. im just so fucking sick of all this im tired of fighting i just want to give up there is no use in battling because all thats happend is that its just getting worse i cant find what i need..

[crazykat]

You have just lost two people that played a significant role in your life. Of course you will be hurting but you need to give yourself time to grieve hun. Talk to the nurses at the hospital, so they can help you. You will get through this

[EmilyTHEgreat]

i dont think im greiving right... i dont think i should be so angry... i just want to kill someone or something...i mean i cant do it... i just feel like shit.. and i know the hospital is here to help me. but im afraid of them they scare me and ther are all mean

[crazykat]

There is no right or wrong way to grieve, everyone grieves differently. Why do they scare you?

[Sleepless123]

Emily i dont know know you but i want to say this and i hope you dont mind.

You arent hopeless.Not at all.Your a very brave and special person who is going through so much.i wish i could take your pain away but i know no words will right now.i feel for you so deeply.Please feel free to PM me anytime.i would like to be there for you.

You must be feeling so hurt and lost and i truely cannot even begin to imagine how things must be for you right now.You must feel so lost, alone and in so much emotional pain but things really can get better from here.i promise you they can.Please lean on people here and the people around you in real life right now.im sure they only want to help you through all this.Please let them know how bad your feeling/how hard your finding things and dont bottle things up.Try to keep communicating.

Please dont give up Emily.You are very important and valuable and special and have come through so much already.You can do this even if it really doesnt feel like it right now.You can.

Thinking of you.

xx xx

PS Just read a bit of your post i think missed earlier sorry.i dont think there is a right way to grieve.Just let yourself feel how you feel - grieving is different for everyone and there is no right or wrong way.Secondly the hospital is there to help you yes.Do you know why you feel so scared of them?Though it would be understandable for you to be scared of pretty much anything right now i should think given the trauma you have been through.Give it time.Has something happened for you to think they are mean?xx xx

[Sophiethebutterfly]

Don't think you have to "greive right". It's ok to have so much anger in you - let it out. The staff are just doing what they need to do to help you. Please try to work with them.

[EmilyTHEgreat]

they intimidate me.. i dont like the feeling of being watched i dont feel like i should be here i know its the best but i dont want to be here i want to be back at home.. i want to go sit by my mom and just talk to her and i want to ask god why why did he take my daddy its not fair i dont want sympathy or sorrow i just want to feel happy again

[Rhea-Billie-Tate]

It's entirely understandable that you're feeling angry, I can't begin to imagine what you're going through. There's no right or wrong way to grieve, but you need to allow yourself to feel whatever is coming up for you and talk or write or do whatever you need to to get it out. I hope that you get all the support that you need, whether that's in the hospital or at home.

Thinking of you,

[IloveCelticWoman]

I don't know you, but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss. All I can say for grieving is that you just have to feel what you're feeling, whether that's angry or upset or sad.

[Sophiethebutterfly]

I know you want to talk to hour mom. Why don't you start to write a letter to her. That way you will have it ready to read to her when you get home. Your family and your puppies need you but you need to let the doctors take care of you first.