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28-12-2016, 12:20 AM
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born to die
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: nuneaton uk, midlands
I am currently:  
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coming out the closet
well i have never really been public about this before, but i have been over thinking about this alot lately and i have come to terms that i do have feelings for guys. im just not sure whether i can come out with it yet, but i cannot be like this forever
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10-01-2017, 04:09 AM
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: US
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As an openly queer person I found one of my biggest mistakes was coming out before I was ready. You really need to accept and embrace who you are. That way if people try to cast a shadow of doubt on you for any reason, you can be secure in your identity. I let people pressure me into coming out and it caused headaches for a long time. I doubted myself. Take as much time as you need. We'll be here go support you.
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11-01-2017, 07:32 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: The Weed State
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Be confident in who you are and what you like! I made sure I was completely comfortable with myself before I came out to my parents. It was super easily after I realized I am who I am, whether they accepted it or not. And if they didn't accept it, I wouldn't apologize for being me and I wouldn't slow down or change for them.
Take your time. You'll know when the time is right x
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"We still talk like everyday but we don't talk in the same
way that we used to. I'll move on and forget you."
~A Part of Me - Neck Deep
"Don’t need them pointing out my problems, they’re mine.
Don’t need reminders, I know better than anyone."
~A Letter - La Dispute
"And the thought of it shakes all my bones in this weak
body I used to own. I can't do this alone."
~I Can't Do This Alone - Balance & Composure
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11-01-2017, 03:29 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2017
Location: UK
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I think everyone has given good advice so far! Definitely make sure you feel confident and secure in yourself, and maybe surround yourself with positive like-minded people before you come out, as a support system. I have a group chat with other friends so I know they're all there to help each other esp when coming out. Take as much time as you need to explore your own identity but know you're not alone <3
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