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Forum: General Chat 09-09-2021, 02:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 5,490
Posted By Reminiscer
Does complaining to other people ever make you feel bad?

Just wondered, does anyone ever feel bad when they complain to other people about something that is bothering you even if you don't vent all the time? I used to talk about what was bothering me a lot...
Forum: General Chat 02-08-2021, 04:38 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 5,202
Posted By Reminiscer
Oh I live in Pennsylvania, in the Pittsburgh...

Oh I live in Pennsylvania, in the Pittsburgh area. Are you moving due to a job? I can’t drive either so I know how much of a pain that is. I use public transit and walk as well as rides from...
Forum: General Chat 15-04-2021, 01:32 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 5,366
Posted By Reminiscer
Friend falling for scam.

A friend of mine is falling for a scam and there doesn't seem to be anything I can do about it. Over the past few months she has grown increasingly obsessed with BTS, a K-Pop band. Recently, she has...
Forum: General Chat 16-02-2021, 10:41 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 6,466
Posted By Reminiscer
I don’t mind at all.

I don’t mind at all.
Forum: General Support and Advice 09-02-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 2,759
Posted By Reminiscer
Giving condolences to someone while they are grieving

Does anyone find it difficult to bring up the passing of someone or give condolences to someone else who is grieving for fear of upsetting them or making them angry? I tend to have this problem...
Forum: General Chat 24-12-2020, 02:49 PM
Replies: 87
Views: 11,261
Posted By Reminiscer
I'm in! :)

I'm in! :)
Forum: General Chat 20-12-2020, 07:42 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 3,588
Posted By Reminiscer
Don't like it when people are too polite to the point of being condescending

I like it when people are polite. Everyone does. But at what point do you start getting a heavy feeling or a sense of annoyance when someone appears to be forcing their politeness or being overly...
Forum: General Support and Advice 19-12-2020, 03:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,381
Posted By Reminiscer
Aw I'm sorry about that. That is so frustrating....

Aw I'm sorry about that. That is so frustrating. I completely understand why you feel depressed. When I graduated from college in 2015, I felt the same way you do. I felt depressed, unmotivated,...
Forum: General Support and Advice 18-12-2020, 04:36 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,973
Posted By Reminiscer
Easier to see where others are struggling socially than ourselves

Has anyone noticed that it is easier to see where others may be struggling socially or making mistakes but have a harder time seeing what you may be doing yourself? You may not understand why...
Forum: General Support and Advice 18-12-2020, 04:35 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,951
Posted By Reminiscer
Finding wide open spaces creepy when alone especially at night

Anyone else get this unsettling creeped out feeling of being in a wide open space alone especially at night? During the day it is not as bad but I feel so creeped out at night, even when I am...
Forum: General Chat 02-11-2020, 02:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 4,870
Posted By Reminiscer
Holiday plans and restrictions

Is anyone's plans for the holidays going to be changed due to restrictions or will you still be doing the same thing you always do? Also, if you have to change plans or not have people over, are you...
Forum: General Chat 01-11-2020, 04:37 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
Yep I like as little interaction with others as...

Yep I like as little interaction with others as possible. There is a very select few people that I enjoy talking to. None of them are family members. And even then I still don’t fully trust those...
Forum: General Chat 31-10-2020, 03:31 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 4,664
Posted By Reminiscer
I totally agree with this. Yes I’ve had toxic...

I totally agree with this. Yes I’ve had toxic friends, but family members are way worse.
Forum: General Support and Advice 30-10-2020, 09:20 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 2,692
Posted By Reminiscer
Feeling like it's intrusive to just assume someone needs help without asking

Does anyone believe that it can be seen as intrusive to just assume someone needs help without asking first? I will admit, I do to an extent. If I am really struggling and it is obvious, then I don't...
Forum: General Support and Advice 30-10-2020, 12:08 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 2,684
Posted By Reminiscer
Friend moving to Atlanta after all after quick change of plans

A friend of mine was supposed to move into a duplex, but at the last minute, her parents decided to pull her out of that idea and move her. She is extremely lazy but has improved. She has a problem...
Forum: General Chat 25-10-2020, 05:54 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 4,664
Posted By Reminiscer
Shouldn't be forced to like family members or confide in them for the sake of family

Does anyone else believe that you shouldn't be forced to like everyone or confide in everyone who are family members? I've heard some people say to me that family is family and no matter what, you...
Forum: General Chat 25-10-2020, 05:53 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
That is lifetime goals right there. Not having...

That is lifetime goals right there. Not having to go anywhere. And I will admit, as much as I dislike being with family, if I absolutely had to choose, I'd rather have them make the trip to visit...
Forum: General Chat 23-10-2020, 02:06 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
Yeah that makes sense. It actually does seem...

Yeah that makes sense. It actually does seem like they subconciously want to upset you. The goal is to not let them get to you.
Forum: General Chat 22-10-2020, 05:59 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
Yep I totally agree, they are a test! One thing...

Yep I totally agree, they are a test! One thing I’ve learned is that just because you are family doesn’t mean you are close to them or even like them.
Forum: General Chat 21-10-2020, 01:58 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
Aw I'm sorry about your depression. I can see...

Aw I'm sorry about your depression. I can see how that can cause too much stress for you. I am the same way, I used to love Christmas when I was a kid. The music, having company over still...
Forum: General Chat 19-10-2020, 04:53 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
That’s good they don’t go crazy. It is just...

That’s good they don’t go crazy. It is just adding unnecessary stress. Especially with lights.
Forum: General Chat 19-10-2020, 04:52 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
Yep I agree! My parents are starting to not...

Yep I agree! My parents are starting to not decorate as much. They still do, but not as much effort which I totally accept. I think it causes too much stress. And yeah having just a nice meal and...
Forum: General Chat 19-10-2020, 03:33 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
Yeah I’m sure having kids help. And yeah, having...

Yeah I’m sure having kids help. And yeah, having family around is draining and forced. Even putting up decorations is forced. I’ve seen people have outrageous screaming matches and overall anger...
Forum: General Chat 19-10-2020, 01:56 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
I totally agree! People seem to think they have...

I totally agree! People seem to think they have to celebrate and have fun with others they rather not see. Most people probably prefer to be alone, with intermediate family, or even other friends...
Forum: General Chat 15-10-2020, 02:01 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,733
Posted By Reminiscer
Not liking the holidays anymore like I used to

Anyone not like the holidays as much as they used to? For the most part, it is all four holidays but Thanksgiving and Christmas are my least favorite due to forced family interactions and people just...
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