RYL Forums


Showing results 1 to 25 of 41
Search took 0.01 seconds.
Search: Posts Made By: roxanne
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-11-2007, 10:18 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,194
Posted By roxanne
no, it's not weird. it makes complete sense. i...

no, it's not weird. it makes complete sense. i have a favorite spot as well. it's the only place i cut now. i've tried other places in the past and i can never get the same satisfaction.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 29-08-2007, 01:11 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 640
Posted By roxanne
yes, i get this way every time i have a urge. i...

yes, i get this way every time i have a urge. i become very fidgety. i have a tendency to flick my fingers a lot. i can't stop moving them. i have even started doing this out in public. it has become...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 29-08-2007, 12:57 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 673
Posted By roxanne
sorry doll! well, you can't really control what...

sorry doll! well, you can't really control what total strangers say to you. all you can do is try to ignore them and not let them get to you. i know, this is hard. if your friends and family...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 29-08-2007, 12:43 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 493
Posted By roxanne
i completely understand the urges. i imagine...

i completely understand the urges. i imagine myself cutting my neck and wrist. my urges have also been pretty strong. you are definitely not alone. try to keep your mind busy. i know, it can be hard...
Forum: General Support and Advice 28-08-2007, 05:26 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 734
Posted By roxanne
hi! well, i'm bi-curious. i haven't had a...

hi! well, i'm bi-curious. i haven't had a relationship with the same sex but i do find myself attractive to women and would like to experiment. if you want to find out if you are bi, you will have to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 28-08-2007, 04:37 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 726
Posted By roxanne
congrats on not cutting for 11 months. i know,...

congrats on not cutting for 11 months. i know, it's extremely hard to fight those urges. you have already made it so far and you can handle this. try not to give in. stay strong.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-08-2007, 12:39 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 662
Posted By roxanne
oh hun, i'm so sorry. that must have been awful....

oh hun, i'm so sorry. that must have been awful. don't give up. you reached out for help and you can do it again. i would recommend making an appointment with your general doctor. maybe he can...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-08-2007, 12:31 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 595
Posted By roxanne
yes, it's normal. sometimes i feel guilty and...

yes, it's normal. sometimes i feel guilty and other times i don't. when i first relapsed my nerves were killing me with guilt. after a few times, it didn't bother me again. it becomes comfortable. it...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-08-2007, 12:20 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 654
Posted By roxanne
as everyone else has stated in the previous...

as everyone else has stated in the previous posts, you're not sick. we all have been there or still doing it. with that said, you might get some satisfaction from holding an ice cube over an old scar...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-08-2007, 12:13 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 560
Posted By roxanne
oh doll...your not wasting anyones time. i'm...

oh doll...your not wasting anyones time. i'm sorry that you have an urge. i completely understand them. i had one last night myself. all you can do is try to keep your mind busy. i would recommend...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-08-2007, 02:44 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,736
Posted By roxanne
well, they might assign your locker where there's...

well, they might assign your locker where there's not a lot people around. anyways, that's what happened when i was in high school. they ran out of lockers on the one side and they had to give me a...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2007, 04:33 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 582
Posted By roxanne
hi doll. i'm sorry that you are going through...

hi doll. i'm sorry that you are going through such a hard time. but, you are not alone. you are not stupid. you are just going through a hard time. don't give up. keep fighting your urges. feel...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2007, 04:17 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 670
Posted By roxanne
that's wonderful that you told your parents and...

that's wonderful that you told your parents and they took it so well. props to you! you've done something that i wished i could do for seven years. you should feel very proud of yourself. to be...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2007, 04:11 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,656
Posted By roxanne
i must say that i don't like being touched. to be...

i must say that i don't like being touched. to be honest, i'm not really sure why. i've never really thought of it.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2007, 04:04 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 687
Posted By roxanne
oh, i'm sorry! well, i would recommend trying not...

oh, i'm sorry! well, i would recommend trying not to cut at least until after your operation. some of your cuts might disappear some. plus, you could try to cover them up with makeup. i completely...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2007, 03:53 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 635
Posted By roxanne
i thought i was SI free until 2 months ago when i...

i thought i was SI free until 2 months ago when i relapsed. i went almost a year without cutting and then fall right back into it. i think you move past SI when you no longer have the urge to cut. i...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-08-2007, 03:48 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 615
Posted By roxanne
sorry hun. at least, you didn't cut very deep. i...

sorry hun. at least, you didn't cut very deep. i hope you feel better soon. i completely understand what you are going through. take care.
Forum: General Chat 17-08-2007, 04:31 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 907
Posted By roxanne
agree. i believe the majority of users are in...

agree. i believe the majority of users are in their teens. i'm 23 and also feel pretty old.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-08-2007, 12:03 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 567
Posted By roxanne
oh i'm sorry. all i can do is recommend getting...

oh i'm sorry. all i can do is recommend getting out of the house and trying to keep your mind busy. i know, this can be hard. hope you feel better soon. take care hun.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-08-2007, 10:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 546
Posted By roxanne
based on this article, i'm not ready to stop...

based on this article, i'm not ready to stop SIing which is somewhat true. i want to stop but it's the one thing that's giving satisfaction in life.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-08-2007, 05:29 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 655
Posted By roxanne
I'm sorry doll! That's great that you haven't cut...

I'm sorry doll! That's great that you haven't cut for over 2 months. You should feel very proud. That's a huge accomplishment. Keep fight the urges. I know, it will be hard. But, try not give up....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-08-2007, 05:23 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 702
Posted By roxanne
oh, i'm sorry. it does sounds like you might be...

oh, i'm sorry. it does sounds like you might be SIing in your sleep. i can't see a reason why it wouldn't be possible. i mean a lot of people do other activities like eating and making their bed up....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-08-2007, 05:11 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 943
Posted By roxanne
well, i know a few of my triggers. i noticed...

well, i know a few of my triggers. i noticed whenever i see scars on someone else i wish that they were mine. my mind automatically goes into cutting mode. whenever i'm sad or depressed about...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 11-08-2007, 06:44 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,396
Posted By roxanne
i would have to say it's a combination of the...

i would have to say it's a combination of the both. sometimes i am triggered and other times i just feel the urge to cut. the other day i visited my grandmother who is not doing very well which made...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 09-08-2007, 10:45 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 673
Posted By roxanne
Heart don't be too hard on yourself. you did ask a...

don't be too hard on yourself. you did ask a question and wanted advice. that's valid. so, i wouldn't worry about that. btw, i do believe it helps to get out whatever you bottle up. it's not good to...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 41

 
Forum Jump

Sea Pink Aroma
All times are GMT +1. The time now is 06:42 AM.