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Old 11-04-2009, 08:37 PM   #1
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What part of the site?

What part of the site is for supporting people having a tough time? It certainly isn't the chatroom.

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:39 PM   #2
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I agree,I was in chat,I found it full of bullies

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:41 PM   #3
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do the people in the chatroom use the same boards or is that a different sign up, when I went to post I had to agree to more or different guidelines. I don't want any of those people to reply to my posts thank you very much

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:45 PM   #4
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You are a mod, I have stated I don't wish for you to repsond to my threads after you attacked me in the chatroom, you have responded mocking me on another thread, could you please leave me alone now.

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:50 PM   #5
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Chat room number 4 is for supporting people primarily but this doesn't always happen. If you feel you are getting bullied in there contact the chat mods. They are the ones with the green usernames. If it happens again log that part of the session so you have proof of it; somewhere in chat it tells you how to do this. You will also find the chat moderators under the staff list.

This site has quite a few forums for support. These can either be self injury once eating disorder, serious discussion and advice, abuse and bullying, general support and advice, mental health support, and vets support; primarily for members over 18 years of age.

General support and advice is a non-triggering board, but the others may trigger.

On these, you can both help other people and get support yourself, if needed. Don't feel scared by asking to support. Lots of people here to help and some of us may have been in this same situations before, which can really help.

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:53 PM   #6
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Thanx Kim, I have had a bad time in the 2 and 4 chatrooms. Tonight it was a mod bullying me. Who can I speak to about that?

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:54 PM   #7
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There was a chat MOD in the room amd he/she was taking the piss,I thought it was a disgrace.

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:55 PM   #8
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It is the same chat mod who is mocking me on the boards too

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:55 PM   #9
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The heads of chat which I've momentarily forgotten their names; Day Tripper is the head of the chat mods

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:55 PM   #10
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Just moving this to Forum discussion and questions as its more relevant.




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Old 11-04-2009, 08:56 PM   #11
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I don't care what you think. Chat was being disrupted by someone making provocative comments and generally insulting my intellect by asking me to take them seriously, and I delt with it.

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Old 11-04-2009, 08:57 PM   #12
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The Head of Chat would be Day Tripper, feel free to log a complaint - in her absence, I'd be the person to talk to.

Though I fail to see how making like 3 threads across the forums is going to achieve anything?



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Old 11-04-2009, 09:04 PM   #13
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As Zeitgeist said Day Tripper would be your main contact as she is head chat moderator.




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Old 11-04-2009, 09:05 PM   #14
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I made 2 threads. The purpose of which is to gain support, I would have thought you would understand that, this being a support site and all.

I will complain, Angron is lying and that is evident in the way she is following me on the boards even when I ask for please not to reply. Heavy sarcasm is not a useful tool within the support field

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Old 11-04-2009, 09:08 PM   #15
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So you are not the person to complain to, good. Judging by your attitude you had already decided whether my complaint was valid or not.

Posting that I am upset is noy indicator of whether I was bullied or not.

I am finding this extremely invalidating

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Old 11-04-2009, 09:08 PM   #16
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Heavy sarcasm is not a useful tool within the support field
It is when dealing with irritants. And I'm not in the support field by the way, I'm in the 'stop chat descending into anarchy' field - it's my job to enforce order and the rules.

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Old 11-04-2009, 09:10 PM   #17
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So you don't give support?You just bully people,This is what this is.
I would be ashamed to admit what you have just wrote.

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Old 11-04-2009, 09:17 PM   #18
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No one was bullied at all ... many peopl in the room will verify this .. i was in that room and gave you nothing but support .. it just verry innapropriate and you was told nicely to slacken it a bit ... ! thats all .. and then you get really offensive about it ... i assure you though hun it was not bullyin i and lady loop were helpin all we could by advising you see a doctor be4 things get worse .. and then it got to i dont know the word .. but a lil graphic ... thats all ..



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Old 11-04-2009, 09:17 PM   #19
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Urm, not trying to interfere or anything, but perhaps you can try to explain what has happened, rather than directing things at each other, because then it may be able to be resolved..... If not, it's going to fall apart and end up in an arguement, and be locked and that'l be the end of that. xx



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Old 11-04-2009, 09:18 PM   #20
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No I'm not ashamed in the slightest about what I wrote. Like I said, my role here is to keep chat moving in some sort of sembalance of order.

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