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Old 31-03-2009, 06:50 PM   #1
Bexwa
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Drinking problems

Over the last few years I have started drinking alot. Not all day and night but mainly at night times and once I get to a certain point I start arguing with my husband. We have got into some really bad fights but now he said he has had enough and left me. I dont know what I am meant to do. I drink to block things that have happened to me out and when we have fort in the past I have promised to get help but after a couple of days the drink calls out to me and I go back to the way I was.

Now he said he doesnt want anything to do with me and that he cant live with someone like me. And what do I do? Today I got so upset because he said he wants me to be the happy person that I am, so took a load of my anti depressents and now I have just opened a bottle of wine.

Whats the point?! I dont know anymore. I wish I could stop this. I wish I could change and not be this person anymore but it seems easier to give up, then wait around and have to tell everyone whats really going on.

I'm lost.

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Old 01-04-2009, 07:56 AM   #2
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you need to get therapy or counseling. someone who will talk to you and help you with why you want to drink, what emotions lead you to reach for the alcohol.

I'm an alcoholic in recovery. You can pm me if you want to talk more.

Susan



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In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.

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