Feeling Used, but don't care cause I'm worried...

[Mystified]

Sorry, this is kinda long, but I would appreciate any advice...

I don't know what to do for my friend anymore...

She left her boyfriend's house about 4 days ago, and has been going to different friend's houses to sleep. She needs to stay near her work cause she doesn't have a car right now. In the mean time, most of her stuff is in my car.

The first night, she stayed with a friend that she knew. She was suppose to call me the next day. She didn't. But the day after, when she did (just to get things from my car), she told me she stayed at this guy's house that she just met...I mean, nothing happened...but it kind of scares me. And then she was suppose to call me that night to tell me where she's crashing for the night...and that was 2 days ago...and I haven't heard anything.

I've told her she could crash at my house, and that I could even drive her into town for work...but it seems all she wants from me is to hold onto all of her stuff. She only calls me when she needs something from my car. Otherwise, she won't call me to tell me what's going on with her, and I'm extremely worried...she's only 18...

Golly, what should I do??

[adamcieslicki]

There doesnt seem to be a lot you can do. Maybe next time you see her just let her know that you worry about her, and give her a slap from me, friends dont treat other friends like that, or at least they shouldnt.
Remind her that you are ok with her crashing at yours as well I guess

[princesskaytie-leigh]

She's 18 so she's fully capable of making her own choices. Like adamcieslicki says, there isn't a lot you can do really. Just keep in touch with her and maybe let her know you're not going to keep her stuff in your car forever, especially if she keeps worrying you like this.