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Old 26-03-2009, 09:17 PM   #1
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Triggering (Suicide) - Noise

I have really noisy neighbours who live above me and over the past few months I have become so sensitive to any noise that they make. I find it difficult to even cope with hearing them close their doors or walking around. For about 3 nights a week they will party until the early hours of the morning and someone from the council spoke to them last week and they didn't put their music up loud but they were still shouting for hours. Any time I hear even a little noise I feel very anxious and I easily get to the point of feeling suicidal. There have been so many times where I have found it extremely difficult not to act on my suicidal feelings.

I don't know what to do now because no one can make them be completely quiet. The council houses here are quite bad quality and they aren't willing to improve the sound insulation. We are on the list for re-housing but hardly any houses ever become available. I'm not sure if we can afford to rent privately because right now my Dad pays no rent at all. I feel like the council aren't taking my mental health problems seriously. Every time I have mentioned them they overlook them and I found something that says they don't consider health problems when evaluating noise levels:
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The evaluation of noise nuisance must be based upon objective tests, where the test is whether or not the offending noise could be considered a nuisance to the 'ordinary, reasonable man'.Consequently, unfortunately in such an evaluation, any special sensitivities of the complainant due to mental illness or disorder cannot be catered for.
I want to ask them if my mental health problems could be considered a medical problem that is given points for re-housing but I don't think they'll understand. I seriously think that this is a matter of life and death, even though that sounds really over the top. Even when i'm at work I can't stop thinking about what will happen when I get home. We have no control over the noise in our house. I just want some peace. I'd honestly rather live in a cardboard box than here.

Do you think that a mental health advocate would be able to put my point across?





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Old 27-03-2009, 12:25 AM   #2
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there may be solutions where not being able to move is an option in the close future...

white noise CDs

http://www.purewhitenoise.com/p-53-p...FUqS3wodxnOztQ

http://www.littlesleepyhead.co.uk/?g...FZAWzAod4C0uvQ

or noise cancelling earphones such as

http://www.handheldaudio.co.uk/pages...x=0&submit.y=0

and (at a price)

http://reviews.cnet.com/best-noise-c...ng-headphones/

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Old 27-03-2009, 12:32 AM   #3
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Pretty costly solutions slacker.

Coincidentally I've just had a 2 hour lecture on noise pollution at uni. From what I've been told they should take your mental health issues into consideration because annoyance is an objective thing. Also it sounds like your "Joe Average" would be annoyed by these people to, just without the severe effect it is having on you.

Mental health advocate sounds like a good idea. Also citizens advice are brilliant for helping you write letters that put your point across. If they can't make the neighbours quieten down I'd push for rehousing. Quote the DDA at them, mental health problems are most definately covered under that and providing you with a quiet environment I'd consider is most definately a "reasonable adjustment" which is what they are required by law to do for you.

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Old 27-03-2009, 02:13 AM   #4
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Awhh hun, that must be really horrible *HUGS*
I think they might be able to put your point acorss but I'm not sure seeming as I've never been in that situation - but good luck! xo.



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Old 27-03-2009, 04:19 PM   #5
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Hugs. I have noise sensitivity too due to Asperger's...I don't have any advice but I just want to offer my hugs.



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Old 03-04-2009, 12:49 PM   #6
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Sorry for bumping this.

I'm having a lot of trouble getting this resolved due to the fact that I find it very difficult to phone people or get my point across when I meet people. I have been trying to go to citizens advice but I keep getting scared so I emailed them but they say that I have to meet with someone face to face. Does anyone have any experience with advocacy because I think that's the only solution that I have, there is no one in my family or my friends who can help me with this.

Also, on a sort of side note, what do social workers who specialise in mental health do? I know that I need more practical support, to do things like make calls, go to meetings, and get involved in the community, but I don't know who could help me to do that.





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Old 03-04-2009, 01:53 PM   #7
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Don't apologize for bumping it dear

Sorry but i have no advice for u .

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