Triggering (OD) - how do i survive mother day when i lost my beauthiful baby
my baby was recently taken away by social services-long story
were working to get her back
im really not looking forward to mothers day,it was the first time i felt her kick inside me on mothersday last year,i though this time next year my baby will be 6 months old it would be a happy day.but now my babys gone.how do i get though the day? where will i find the strength?
my mum want to get a card from my baby and get her to put a hand print inside it or somthing.but motherday is about thanking you mum,im not even looking after her what does she have to thank me for,
any tips on how to survive the day.
thinking bout ODing not sucide,just a few extra seditives to make me go to sleep,i did that on xmas day.staying in bed sound bout right.getting drunk
anyone eles gonna find motherday hard?
I really don't know what to say to help you out here but i'm so sorry about it all.
Stay strong sweetie.
I'm going to find it really hard aswell as it means i have to be around my mum which i am finding really hard right now as so many of my bad memories include her treating me like sh*t.
If you wanna chat i'll be here for you
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I know its hard but you need to try keep yourself distracted on the day is there anyone you could stay around who can help keep you safe.
Od'ing is so dangerous even if you not doing it to kill yourself I don't know the reasons why you baby was taken away but od'ing will not help you get her back. You can get through this, you need to be strong.
You are definately not the only one who finds the day hard, I do but for different reasons.
If you need anything feel free to pm me.
Take care of yourself sweetie
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You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
I'm so sorry. Whatever happened, I think the best thing you can do is think of it this way: Mother's day is about celebrating being a mother. And whether your baby is with you or not, you're still a mother. It's awful that she can't be with you right now, but I think you have to take some strength from it. They can take her away, but you're still her mother and you're prepared to fight for her and prove to everyone that you can be a great mum and that you can care for her.
I think you can survive the day by keeping that in mind - that yes the situation is terrible, but there's still hope and just imagine how great it will be when you have her back rather than thinking about the fact that she's not there right now. Overdosing on sedatives is not the way to go. There's always a chance that even if you don't intentionally take enough to kill yourself, you could stop breathing and end up brain-damaged or dead. Or end up with kidney or liver damage. It's not worth the risk.
Take care
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hi hun by concentraiting on getting her back i know how you feel ive been there ,work hard at getting her back and making sure you have a lovely day,i know it will be hard but hold on to the thought your going to get her back be safe take care hun.if you ever need some one to chat to pm me any time.
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Awwh, hun.
I'm so sorry to hear about that.
You will get through it. Please don't overdose, it won't help anything.
Like you said you're working to get her back, that's a positive, right? Just try and focus on that. Take care, we're always here for you. xo.
