First Boyfriend Queries ^^;;

[Tragic.With.A.Capital.T]

Okay. Make what you will of this, but I need relationship guidance.

Here's the skinny.

I'm fourteen.
And I'm currently in my first proper relationship.
Sort of.
Since last week.

And I am so confused it's driving me insane.
As you can see, logical thinking isn't really what I do best.
Especially not as of late.

I'd ask my real-life friends, but... they'd laugh.
At least if you guys laugh, I don't hear it.

I know what you're thinking; heck, where's that girl been?
But I know, I know.
I'm just a little slow with relationships. Well, slower than most.

Anyway; I'm his first girlfriend too, so it's not all that bad.

And I'm just lost as to when to make the first move.
I don't know how to act around him.
Usually, when I act myself I end up making a complete moron of myself.
Aaaand, I have no idea about all the 'first kiss' kinda stuff.
When, where and how?

Hah. I have inexperiencedness down to a tee.
So help, please? ^^;;

[shadow-seeker]

well your first kiss will come naturally cause i only had my first kiss about a week ago and just ac t normal around because thats why je loves you hope that helps at all
xxxx

[Ash*]

Have you got the same avator on another forum?
And sig picture? Hmmm.
Anyway,just do what feels "right",it sounds silly,but it works,you just know. Do what you want to do,and laugh if it goes wrong. It's all part of the fun really.

Enjoy yourself =]

xx

[Tragic.With.A.Capital.T]

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Originally Posted by Ash*

Have you got the same avator on another forum?
And sig picture? Hmmm.
Anyway,just do what feels "right",it sounds silly,but it works,you just know. Do what you want to do,and laugh if it goes wrong. It's all part of the fun really.

Enjoy yourself =]

xx

The only other forum I really ever use is gaiaonline.com... hehe.

And yep, sounds like me. Laughing (hysterically) at everything that fails.
Brilliant.

[Ash*]

Haha,no,it's not off there,never mind.

Aww,nowt wrong with laughing,it's better then getting horribly embarrassed or something,seriously,just go with it,you'll find what works and what doesn't.

[Camie]

There's nothing to laugh at or be ashamed of. I think people push way to young these days and there's no need for it. Anyway, I agree that it will come naturally when the time feels right. There's no race or reason to hurry. When the right moment comes, you'll kiss. Just try to act like you normally would around him and don't worry so much. Having a boyfriend is supposed to be fun. :)

[xcatalystx]

aw. you sound just like me a few years ago...most of us all go through it. to be honest, i didn't have a real boyfriend till i was 15, and it was with someone a few years older than me, with a lot more experience. i was SO afraid about kissing, or being a 'bad kisser'. the thing is, it will happen when it's meant to, if it's meant to. this guy obviously likes you for you, so don't change how you act just becuase you are in a relationship now. even if you make yourself look dumb, he'll probably like you anyway. he's probably JUST as if not more afraid then you! good luck with it all hun.

[HopeRises]

14 is an ok age for a first boyfriend trust me..any earlier then it's abit scary. Your young still and got your whole life ahead of you anyways thats another story for another day.

The first kiss, I'm pretty sure will just come naturally and the best advice I can give you about kissing is, go with the flow and remember there is no right or wrong way to kiss and secondly, just be yourself hun. He obviously likes who you are and so thats why he's with you.

good luck darling.

[Tragic.With.A.Capital.T]

Aw, thankies for all your advice, dudes. It's helped the whole sort of... terror of the situation ^^

I'm still nervous... but yeah. What happens happens.

xxx

[Douglass]

I was 15 when I had my first kiss, worth the wait.
as crazy as it sounds, it really just does come naturaly, you panic and worry about it for ages and then one day you just sitting with them and next thing you know you are kissing them!
just do not worry about it and just always keep a pack of mints handy!

[charcoal feathers]

aw. this threads kinda cute.
just go with it, it'll come naturally when the time is right.
and be yourself
x