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Old 28-01-2009, 07:51 PM   #1
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Join In - National Shout at Carrie Week

Please feel free, so far we have:

1. Monday - a client emails someone bitching about me and saying I was "USUAL BULLSHIT". Not sure he meant to send it to me though. Anyway, the thing is he is clueless that I have saved the arse of someone else in the firm and their slackness and sorted everything. Do I get thanks for my minor miracle? No, instead I get slagged off.

2. Tuesday - the Claimant's medical expert (psychiatrist at Cassel of all people) somehow doesn't understand civil procedure rules. I explain, perfectly politely but for some reason he takes it out on me and emails me a really arsey email - not experienced this in 30 years, blah, blah, busy clincs at Cassel. For ****s sake, he didn't even address the email to me, just launched into a tirade of abuse. The bright side I supose is that at least my psych isn't that bad

3. Tuesday - Helping to resolve a query re an outstanding invoice. not my job but helping out. No-one else having taken responsibility. Not good enough and the woman on the 'phone proceeds to actually shout. i had to say to her "You're giong to have to stop shouting in order that you can hear me explaining how to progress the issue"

4. Wednesday - The best yet. Due to my difficulties etc, I took a step down at work in November and became a paralegal instead of a solicitor. The firm cancelled my practising certificate (need this in order to legally practise as a solicitor). The SRA (regulatory body) write to me asking me why holding myself out as solicitor. Me think they are just being dim. Work writes back, explains that I'm not practising as a solicitor. The result? A letter arrives today Dear Miss... In the light of the information supplied and that you are working as a "paralegal", we found you in breach. Continuing breach will result in referral to the disciplinary panel. How on earth am I supposed to be in breach when I am working as a paralegal not a ****ing solicitor.

Who wants to be next?

Sorry, turned out to be a bit of a rant.



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Old 28-01-2009, 09:02 PM   #2
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My prediction for Thursday?

Psych who has taken dislike and decided to be rude to me will make an official complaint against me - what do reckon? via the firm or via the SRA?



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Old 29-01-2009, 02:28 AM   #3
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wow! what a week!!

Hoping it's only a half a week of shouting; and the rest goes better :)



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Old 29-01-2009, 03:15 AM   #4
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Take the letter to your boss and go "WTF!" and let them sort it out. Other than that, people are arsey and deserve a good swift kick up the arse!



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Old 29-01-2009, 03:27 PM   #5
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take all the letters to your boss because nobody has the right to be rude to you personally if you do make a mistake etc, then they follow official complaints procedures etc, mand x



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Old 29-01-2009, 03:31 PM   #6
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*shouts at you*
YOU'RE LOVELY AND YOU DON'T DESERVE THIS.
YOU'RE LOVELY, YOU'RE LOVELY, YOU'RE LOVELY, YOU'RE LOVELY.

See, there's nice shouting too... :)




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Old 29-01-2009, 07:23 PM   #7
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Bloody hell what a week... how was today?!



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Everything has both dark and light.
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Old 29-01-2009, 10:34 PM   #8
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Today was just terrible. Can't go into it now but the theme of the week has continued. Flipping heck. Can't wait til tomorrow is finished!



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Old 29-01-2009, 10:49 PM   #9
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Honey, just hang in there. The weekend is only a day away.

Sorry you are getting so much flack, you really DONT deserve it.




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Old 29-01-2009, 10:51 PM   #10
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The thing with it being so shitty has made me realise I don't deserve it because nobody possibly could.

Now? Ideas for a reward for not flippin out at everything? Carrie loves alcohol but not allowed unless in moderation, which never works



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Old 29-01-2009, 10:53 PM   #11
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*shouts at you*
YOU'RE LOVELY AND YOU DON'T DESERVE THIS.
YOU'RE LOVELY, YOU'RE LOVELY, YOU'RE LOVELY, YOU'RE LOVELY.

See, there's nice shouting too... :)
I like that



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Old 29-01-2009, 11:03 PM   #12
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Well I think you deserve a relax after that stressful week.

Have a hot bubble bath, candles, music and a nice bottle of wine.

At least its cheap, in this credit crunch.

I really hope you have a great weekend, you deserve it.


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Old 29-01-2009, 11:05 PM   #13
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Hmm, could I stop at 1 bottle of wine



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Old 29-01-2009, 11:09 PM   #14
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I like your style No reason, hehehehehe Take care honey

Good Luck with tomorrow at work

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Old 30-01-2009, 12:03 AM   #15
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Go see a movie! Movie and yummy foods and popcorn! goo dtimes



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Old 30-01-2009, 01:40 AM   #16
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you could buy one bottle of wine and water it down into spritzers or punch to make it last longer.

and buy some earplugs to drown out the shouting.



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Old 30-01-2009, 02:13 AM   #17
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Old 30-01-2009, 02:25 AM   #18
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Well done on getting through the week.



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