Triggering (Suicide/Sexual Abuse) - It's going to stop!

HiddenStar · 26-01-2009, 09:49 AM

Umm, okay.

Well atm i'm a huge state having stop crying all night. Over the last few days i found out my 19 year old brother is going out with a 13 year old, Yes sick i know. It's not the first 13 year old either, He hangs around with little girls aswell. Yesterday he also said that the first word that pops into his head in penis. Scaryy. It's not only that but he is hurting everyone around me and people he knows. He makes everyone think he loves them and that they mean something and then are really horrible to them. Not only that but he forced me into stuff when i was 12( 2-4 times), i've been hiding it ever since (now 15) and i've nearly died so many times because of him. Now i just can't take no more. I'm going to social services today to find out what they can do and if they can find me another home cos i can't live here no longer. It needs to stop and it's going to stop this week. How long before one of those little girls has togo though what i've been/going though. How long will it be before he does something and someone kills themself :\ i need to stop it. i'm the only person who can. I'm doing it to save those other girls, i've never want them to end up the way i have :\

I don't know why i'm posting here really, Just need a little support.
it's really scary. I'm going at 1pm to see them.

Thanks

Stacey <33

noise_dude · 26-01-2009, 10:15 AM

im crap at advice, speak to the police and give as much evidence as you can

Spoons · 26-01-2009, 10:16 AM

good luck i guess, i dont really know what to say.
its a brave thing your doing.

hellohefalump · 26-01-2009, 10:48 AM

you are very brave, and I think you're doing the right thing. I really admire what you're going to do, good luck with it.

Popple · 26-01-2009, 12:29 PM

Good luck sweetie
xx

HiddenStar · 26-01-2009, 01:38 PM

Thank you :)
I'm going to meet my friend in 20 minuates then were going up there :(
starting to get really scared now :(

Stacey <33

Zedebee · 26-01-2009, 02:29 PM

*hugs*
You're being so brave. I hope it goes/has gone ok x

Emo · 26-01-2009, 03:00 PM

you are so brave and you can do this we are here for you and you are in our thoughts
:hug

ghosts in the machine · 26-01-2009, 04:14 PM

I hope it went okay, you're incredibly brave for doing this. *offers hugs*

HiddenStar · 26-01-2009, 07:49 PM

*hugs all back*

i did it, We waited 2 hours to speak to someone, soo the woman came down and asked what we wanted advice on and we asked as if it was for a friend and she said that we needed to tell the friend that the police would only be invovled if she concented, That she would do a video statement and it'll go to court or just get warned. or the police would find out and thats the end and social services can help me.

Soo cos i got rather upset the woman said that they are there if i need them, that wheen i feel ready to answer some in detail questions then go back and they will take it from there, Cos it didn't come out of my mouth it's came out of my friends cos i was rather upset she said that when i'm ready there ready.

I'm hoping to be ready for wednesday or thursday

Thank you

Stacey <33

Rodolphus · 26-01-2009, 08:02 PM

Hey, well done for going :) it's a big thing.
I don't really know what to say, I've never really been in your position, but still, you're braver than I could ever be,
*lotsofhugs*
and you can always message me, should you need or want to :)
Marie, xx

cakey · 26-01-2009, 08:24 PM

well done stacey, this is a big step for you, i know. and remember i am holding your hand through all this.

maybe try writing what you want to say in a letter and giving the social worker the letter, i sometimes find this easier than saying it outloud.

i know you can do this hun, you can. and you know where i am if you need someone to talk to, rant at or just need cuddles.

*cuddles tight*

02-02-2009, 04:55 AM

omg babe i i i i never knew im sorry hunni i knew abit about it but not u n him aww babe im here foryou xx

crazykat · 02-02-2009, 05:17 AM

Wow you were incredibly brave for what you have already done, I wish you the best of luck if you do decide you want to report this. Take care
Kat xxx

HiddenStar · 02-02-2009, 08:54 AM

Thank you,

My meeting was today, but it's cancelled due to bad weather and stuff
It's now friday at 2pm

Well nervous now *shakes*

Thank you for the support

Take care

Staceyy<33

danskpige · 02-02-2009, 12:49 PM

hugs, your being so brave well done

Lyssie · 02-02-2009, 07:08 PM

You are sooo so so brave! xx

silverfaerychild · 02-02-2009, 08:38 PM

You,can do it

i have hope in you