does any1 know...?

pebbles · 06-07-2007, 11:08 AM

um..yeah im having a really hard time at the moment
i think i need to be seeing a shrink or something
i havent seen 1 in bout 6 months, i stopped going.

i have been feeling really suicidal and need some help, but i dont want my parents to find out.

im only willing to see some1 if nobody finds out, well anyway i just wanted to know how i would be able to see some1 without my parents finding out, cos im 15 and every time iv been before my parents have known.

so if any1 knows please reply thanks

Bleeding Angel · 06-07-2007, 03:30 PM

i wrote a thread here about suicidal feelings, it should explain a bit on the health front too.

i should add, i dont know how your parents found out, but no one can really tell them , well docs and that

akita · 07-07-2007, 01:06 AM

Here in Australia they can and do tell your parents if you are under 16 but i dont know what the laws are where you live.

cutupangel09 · 07-07-2007, 03:09 AM

If a doctor/counselor (in America) thinks you are a danger to yourself or others they can tell your parents at your age. You could most likely receive counseling though from school maybe without a parents knowing. I am not really sure.

pebbles · 09-07-2007, 12:30 PM

thanks for the replies but im not gunna go and see any1 cos i know my parents will find out and i cant have them knowing.

thanks for replying though, i appreciate it.

kate xx

dying__deep__inside · 09-07-2007, 10:43 PM

I think you should get help.

If they find out, they'd find out that you were taking steps to better your life, which is a really mature, positive step.

surviving · 09-07-2007, 11:19 PM

I really think that you should get help, but your parents are going to find out about you seeing a counselor you are still quite young and your parents are the ones paying. Sorry not trying to make you mad but I have learned that if I want good help my parents are always the ones who paid when I was in highschool. You could probably see someone at school but certain subjects such as self harm, suicide, drugs, and stuff like that is an automatic call parents. If you go to a different counselor even though your parents will know that you are going you can ask if the counselor can keep what you talk about confidential, many time they are very willing. Mind you this is all up in the states but I thought it would help. PM me if you need anything.

**kleechy** · 09-07-2007, 11:54 PM

if i was u i'd go ..
go with someone over the age of 18 that u can trust..
i've taken a friend that was your age to get help ..
and i was like the responisble adult ..
if u wiv somone thts like old enuf u'l b ok ..
and they wont tel ur parents
take care
xxkatexx

pebbles · 10-07-2007, 12:55 PM

thanks but i dont trust any1

last time i went i didnt even trust them enough to say that much.

the only person i trust to keep my secrets is me, if im the only 1 keeping hold of them then theyre safe.
talking bout stuff is stupid anyway, it just makes it all more painfull. i just want to forget.
i dunno why i was even thinking bout going to see some1 it was a stupid idea.

thanks for the replies though, sorry i wasted your time.

pebbles · 11-07-2007, 09:17 PM

yes i am still feeling suicidal

sorry but i dont agree,
talking bout stuff cant and never will change things that have happened in the past,
so talking about them just makes them as vivid and as painfull as when they happened.
some tings just need to stay deep inside your soul, locked away forever.

thanks anyway