Triggering (SI) - school bules

[rowankrow]

i am at school i am vary sad i feel the pain of those around me if i tell the people at the school they will call my mom and tell her i have been hurting myself i love my mom but she treats me different now she knows i injur my self

[falling tears]

Oh i am sorry to hear that you are having a really tough time at the moment! I do hope that things can change and I know that they can if you can talk about them to a well trusted person.

Maybe you could ask to talk confidentially to somebody, if it too hard to face your mum about the issue???

I really think that it would be a great idea if you could get councelling! i went through similar issues at school and was horrified when the teachers got my parents to have a meeting with them about self harm.

At the time it was really crap but now (a few years on) my relationship with my parents is great!

i have had lots of help with family therapy (which helped my parents to understand self harm). And a really good councellor who enabled me to talk about almost everything.

I really hope that you can get the same amount of support.

Why dont you arrange an appt with your doctor as everything you say to them is confidential, and they may be able to get you a good support network.

Please please feel free to PM me as i would love to hear how you are doing and I am always hear if you wanna talk... i will always reply to your messages and i do care!

Best wishes

Jen xxx

[falling tears]

HI, I just tried to reply to your pm but it wouldnt let me!!!

Um thanks for pming me and i will try to send it again soon!

Love Jen

[Cazki]

*Cuddles you* Im really sorry that your having such a difficult time. You can get through this. I think you need to talk to somone about how your feeling because keeping everything locked up inside you will only make things worse it will be much better if you can talk to someone and then get things out in the open. Have you tried talking to your mum about how your feeling? Could you book an appointment with your doctor to talk about things?

You may also find it helpful to print off some stuff about self harm to give to your mum so that she can have a better understanding of self harm. You really need to reach out for support so that you can get the help you need. Its important you do talk to someone about things you should not be having to go through this. Are you able to talk to us about why you have been harming yourself and also what is going on for you? If you can it will help uys to support you better. Please keep safe. We are here to support you through this difficult time.

Take care all the best Ian

[Misunderstood.]

Just wanted to send you a (hug) hon xxxx