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Old 02-11-2008, 11:55 PM   #1
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just a little help plz

hey im not sure wether this would be classed as physical abuse.
but everytime me and my bf argue. he gets a bit violent he has pushed me and pinned me up against the wall.
im not sure what to do any help??
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Old 03-11-2008, 06:21 AM   #2
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Yes that classifies, and is also extreme intimidation. Usually those things are also warning signs that he may get worse and start hitting you. *hugs* You should think about how things are going and maybe stop seeing him a while hun

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Old 03-11-2008, 07:39 AM   #3
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It does sound like physical abuse, I would think very seriously about whether your really want to be with this guy, keeping in mind that the violence is likely to excalate, and the more it escalates the harder it is to get out.



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Old 03-11-2008, 09:34 PM   #4
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i cant help but feel im to blame though i should of just done what he said then it wouldnt of happened



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Old 04-11-2008, 08:56 AM   #5
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No you shouldn't of. He should never get that way around you, and you have a right to say no to anything he asks of you. It's not your fault at all, this is his fault not yours.



It's easier to run; Replacing this pain with something numb;It's so much easier to go;Than face all this pain here all alone;



Some people say courage is diving infront of a bullet, or bungy jumping off a bridge, but thats not true courage, true courage is facing everyday knowing that it won't be a happy go lucky day, but facing it anyway. It's facing your past, dealing with the present, and looking forward to brighter days.

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Old 05-11-2008, 01:18 PM   #6
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shadow, sadly that is physical abuse, and im very sorry you have to go through that. i kow you may love him, but you have to get out of that relationship before it escalates.

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