Need Advice On Asking A Guy Out

[Lace-Me-Up-x]

So umm yeahhh...
Does anyone have any advice on asking guys out? He's a fairly mature boy and well..i really like him >.< we're both 14 [well i'll be 15 on saturday but cha know]

So um.. Any advice? xD

[the darkness inside me]

well back when i was 14 (im 18 now) there would always be a girl i liked. BUT i was too nervous to ask her out. why not just let him now you like him? or just bring it up casually like "ya know, i have to say, i totally could see us dating." just a minor comment that hints you like him.

hope it helps

[Freedom Fighter]

not to be a pessimist but be ready for a no. Its one of the hardest things to take. I cant help you that much because all of my tries to ask girls out were failures

best of luck
tom

[ihatethereforeiam]

Hmm, I don't have much experience with it myself but something cheesy like "is it wrong that I really want to kiss you?" or the like should suffice, but obviously time it well, otherwise it could be devastating, just flirt and test the waters first.

[l'il esky]

do you know if he likes you too? maybe just say....do you fancy going to the cinema/coffee *insert what you want to do* sometime.......

i am in the same sorta situation except for 10yrs older and i met a guy that i liked at a friends party but waited till i knew he liked me too. and then my friend got his mobile number off of another friend and then i text mentioning about the eve we met and just mentioned about another party that is in a few wks time and just kinda started off like that....then he asked if i wanted to do something earlier....

so my advice would be to either get his email address and maybe chat on msn or get his mobile number.....

good luck, let us know how it goes :) we love a good love story round here :D xx

[Jay603]

i got asked out once, i said yes. She asked if she could talk to me and we went out of the room (freinds house) and she got really close to me, looked me in the eye and said "do you think we could see movie tomorrow"

I was gonna ask her out anyway i was just really nervous because i really liked her and we were freinds and the last girl i asked out didn't talk to me again.

if he says no don't take it hard, having been turned down many times i can say getting upset is a waste of time

good luck