I am the one with morals. You guys are the ones that stand there and watch, hands in your pockets, not doing anything. Yet I'm the one pictured as a criminal. Yes I've been bullied in the past, I've risen above and I actually stand up for my friends and I am proud of that. I have no place on this messageboard. I seriously hope you guys get up and get out of your victim role and be proud again.
Of course this thread will be closed. There are a few exceptions to what I just typed on here and I will personally PM them to thank them for their support. Feel free to call the police in Venlo and tell them I've been 'violent', let me know how long the laughter lasted.
Though I did not add anything to the other thread, I do think a little was down to a misunderstanding and the use of language, but if you so choose to leave then thats you decision.
This is ridiculous. Do not leave over a thread! Everyone has had something said against them in the past. Believe me, I have had my fair share on here but this is the internet. No matter how much some people love this place it isn't your life. Just rise above petty comments and carry on enjoying the place you came to originally for support.
i find it kind of funny your victim comment, when you are playing the victim and willing to leave over one thread.
However i support that you stood up for your friend, it was the right thing to do.
Yet another controversial thread causing a member to leave?
To be honest, I think it's good that you stood up for yourself but I the language you used in your post really does sound a little too vindicative 'I Beat him up', and thus it's no wonder that it stirred up a fuss.
I think it only got out of hand because you weren't clear about the situation in the original post, so it just looked like you'd randomly beaten a guy up for no reason.
I respect your decision to leave though.
Take care.
It's a bit silly to leave over a thread which was mainly caused by a misunderstanding and a communication issue. But it's up to you.
I have morals, plenty of them. Which is why I questioned your other thread. Calling me (and others) cowards didn't go down well with me either. But I let it slide.
What? You weren't satisfied with the amount of attention your last thread got you decided to make this one and "leave" in a flurry of arrogance and melodrama?
Please get off your high horse.
Don't go. One stumble should not mean you should abandon the right path. So you made a mistake, welcome to being human. We've all made mistakes, each and every one of us.
Don't abandon this place if, deep down, you think it can help you. You can make good friends here if you try.
You have one. And sometimes one good friend is all it really takes.
Don't be fooled by my smooth skin. The deepest scars are the ones unseen.
Remember compliments you received, forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how..~ Baz Lurhman.
Letting it get to you - You know what that's called? Being alive. Best thing there is. Being alive right now that's all that counts. ~ Doctor Who "The Doctors Wife" 06.November.2011
You made a thread with a title saying you beat someone up and then went into very little detail saying you kicked a drunk man out of a bar and 'gave him a good beating' once he tried to get back in.
And you are leaving because people were not pleased for you?
Let me be the one you call
If you jump i'll break your fall
Lift you up and fly away with you into the night
If you need to fall apart
I can mend a broken heart
If you need to crash then crash and burn YOU'RE NOT ALONE
I am the one with morals. You guys are the ones that stand there and watch, hands in your pockets, not doing anything. Yet I'm the one pictured as a criminal. Yes I've been bullied in the past, I've risen above and I actually stand up for my friends and I am proud of that. I have no place on this messageboard. I seriously hope you guys get up and get out of your victim role and be proud again.
Of course this thread will be closed. There are a few exceptions to what I just typed on here and I will personally PM them to thank them for their support. Feel free to call the police in Venlo and tell them I've been 'violent', let me know how long the laughter lasted.
Sincerly,
Marte
I'm sorry to hear that you're leaving. If you feel as though one thread is just cause for this then that is your decision and not that of others. I know that if i followed the same philosophy then i would have left long ago; but i stayed, i personally would much rather leave on a positive note than on a negative one.
The whole thread was mis-informing, right from the onset. That is what the issue is. Surely you'd agree that posting with the title "I beat someone up, kind of." on a site that many people have more than likely been physically assaulted or abused in some form or another was not the best of options. You may see it as an act of bravery, standing up for your friends, but then the full circumstances were not known until the very end of he thread and after the answering of the questions.
I understand that you feel out of place, as if you don't belong. But please reconsider? Leaving over nothing and accusing people of simply been in their 'victim roles' will not solve anything. The option to delete this thread, and carry on as normal is stll there. It's not as though this site will forever judge you on one mistake of one thread which resides among thousands; nobody judged you in the first place. Rather, an opinion that things could have been dealt with in a better way or a desire for violence not been used at all. Communications do break down every now and again. I'm sorry to see some of the comments that have been posted on this thread. Not so much what is been said, but the amount of times and people that have said it. But as always, the option to delete this is there.
Whatever choice you make, it is just that. Your choice. I wish you the best either way, no matter whatever you say or feel towards me or others here.
