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06-09-2008, 12:35 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: England
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new-ish here and lonely
hi
just somewhere to vent really. have used this site before, found it very helpfull.
i'm married now, but feel so lonely at times, and trapped. i have a totally different lifestyle now, and miss the old one so much. i feel like i've betrayed myself but leaving my old way of life. i feel like my wife is driving out the old me, and it bloody hurts. my wife has chronic fatiuge whichmakes her sleep for days sometimes.
i dont have any friends here, i've left them behind. i have a great job and just got promoted, but i still feel empty, and sad all the time.
sorry for the rant.
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06-09-2008, 05:40 AM
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Bringing back the lost art of Sewing
Join Date: Sep 2007
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What part of you is being driven away? How have you betrayed yourself?
I know what it is like to be lonely even when you are married. I've been there too. It has taken years of work for us to make things better.
Please, talk to us? Let us know how we might help? If nothing else, I'm here to listen.
Oh yeah welcome to RYL and to vets.
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My husband is my best friend.
In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.
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06-09-2008, 06:23 AM
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Closet Rockstar
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: the world is my stage
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hey, sorry you're feeling this way...if you need to talk i'm on for a while
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does life have meaning if no one is watching?
what beats smartness and foresight? awkwardness and stupidity- Mark Twain
Life's Journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy ****..What a Ride!!!" -Bumper Sticker
love is just another four letter word to me
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06-09-2008, 03:19 PM
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Tumbling down the rabbit hole
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: England
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Why do you feel your wife is driving out the old you? Have you spoken to her about the way you feel? I hope you find the help you need here
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I've come so far, I'm behind again
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07-09-2008, 05:48 AM
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Bringing back the lost art of Sewing
Join Date: Sep 2007
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How are you doing now?
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My husband is my best friend.
In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.
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07-09-2008, 09:57 PM
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struggling
Join Date: Oct 2007
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Hey there and welcome,
{hugs}
You're never alone here.
Catherine xxxx
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The most profound things are inexpressible.
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