Triggering (SI/OD) - scared

[xanthismom]

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me online i checked his phone and nothing that could cause concern there and i checked his bills and nothing there.But he spends hours on tagged at a time and all these pretty girls he has added.It maskes me sick but im scared tio find out the truth cos i know what will happen if i do i will od and hurt myself he is still taljking about us moving in together and iour holiday booked for november but the thoughts are making me real ill and unsafe.

[sherlock holmes]

Why don't you tell him your fears/worries? It's always good to talk about things, especially if you might be moving in together.

If you don't feel safe, is there anywhere you can go to make you feel safer? If you feel like you are about to do something, then ring your psych/doctor/go to A&E or ring the samaritans. http://www.samaritans.org/

[Cazki]

I think the best way to go about this is to talk to him. Tell him what you just said to us, tell him how you feel and be honest but dont get angry its impotant you talk to him about this especially as you said that you may be moving in together. May i also suggest that you go to to A&E if your feeling unsafe and that you may do something to harm yourself. Do you have any proffesional support? Keep talking to us, we are here for you.

Take care best wishes Ian

[deadtotheworld]

*hugz*
talk 2 him, get it out in the open and tell him how him adding the other girls makes you feel.
i understand y your scared of finding out the truth- but if you dont find out- its only going to be going round in your head and making you feel worse. he might not be cheating at all, which would be good.
if the worse does happen, we r all er 2 suport you and you can always send me a pm anytime. i have a boyfriend a few years back who cheated on me, im glad that i found out and finished with him straight away- i ment i stil had some control over it.
take care of your self
xxxx