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19-08-2008, 12:16 AM
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Square One
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Bournemouth
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Triggering (SI) - Poss trig i dont know im so sorry guys
i feel so bad because i never come on here unless im feeling low and need help and i feel like i never contribute as a group but i have just royally screwed myself. please someone help me.
i just cut, first time in over a year and my boyfriend is asleep next to me and im too scared to tell him.
i have no bloody idea why i did it!! why would i want to screw everything up. why? why do i do this when i start to feel happy/.
what do i do?
please, i feel so lost.
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19-08-2008, 12:26 AM
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Bringing back the lost art of Sewing
Join Date: Sep 2007
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*hugs you*
For me, when I self injure, it is because of how i'm feeling. For me, it is usually frustration or helplessness. I know that other people have different reasons too.
Please, keep talking to us?
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My husband is my best friend.
In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.
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19-08-2008, 12:31 AM
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Square One
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Bournemouth
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i just fel like i have lost my way.... completely.
but thought i was heading back on track.
guess i was burying my head in the sand,
oh god what do i do?
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19-08-2008, 10:23 AM
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tired
Join Date: Feb 2008
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i'm sure you are heading back on track if you've managed so long cut-free.
we ALL have slip ups no matter how strong we are. sometimes urges get too strong for no particular reason, sometimes we just get too tired of resisting. it doesn't mean you are back to square one, just that you had a slight bump in the road.
get the cut seen to if it needs it and try not to be too harsh on yourself about this. maybe tell your boyfriend so he can be extra nice to you for a while :)
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Even as the stone of the fruit must break that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.
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19-08-2008, 12:12 PM
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struggling
Join Date: Oct 2007
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Don't panic, you haven't screwed everything up. I think you should tell your boyfriend and talk about things with him.
Catherine xxxx
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The most profound things are inexpressible.
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19-08-2008, 05:47 PM
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I agree with everyone else. Even the strongest of us have slip-ups, you haven't messed things up. You've just had a 'blip'. Talk to your boyfriend if you can, a caring ear can really help.
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- x Plumeria Sister x - Forever thankful to RYL <3
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