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07-08-2008, 10:43 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2008
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Weird Question
Hey there guysI'm new.
Anyway I have this weird thing about wanting someoneto look after me and care for me, like 24/7, like a mum I guess. I know it stems from BPD and my past but does anyone else here feel like that, I'm nearly 27 BTW
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07-08-2008, 10:50 PM
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No Escape From Solitude
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warm welcomes to vets!!!
and YES i feel that way lots. im 31 and still feel like a child sometimes. i think its a normal reaction to stress and such. we want someone to be with us, to guide us....and sometimes just to hold us.
*holds you close*
loves.
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A little Consideration, a little Thought for Others, makes all the difference.
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07-08-2008, 11:02 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2008
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Thanks Yellow!
*hugs*
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07-08-2008, 11:12 PM
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No Escape From Solitude
Join Date: Apr 2008
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anytime!!!!
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A little Consideration, a little Thought for Others, makes all the difference.
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07-08-2008, 11:52 PM
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L J
Join Date: Jul 2008
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me i feel like that! i am nearly 26 and have not found anyone willing to do that yet
*hugs*
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08-08-2008, 12:07 AM
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~* Formerly Voice Of Reason*~
Join Date: Mar 2008
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I...am the opposite... 
I constantly push people away and insist I dont NEED looking after...although half the time I probably do...
sorry!!
this was a Pointless post!! :P
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...&& the cracks begin to show... **Lex**
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08-08-2008, 07:21 AM
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Bringing back the lost art of Sewing
Join Date: Sep 2007
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I have a mum in my aa sponsor. What I want is a dad. And I am 42 years old.
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My husband is my best friend.
In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.
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08-08-2008, 09:10 AM
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tired
Join Date: Feb 2008
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i think lots of us want someone to just hold us and look after us. even without any mental health or childhood problems its quite natural to want to be looked after, because it's safe and comforting.
so anyway you're not the only one!
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Even as the stone of the fruit must break that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.
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08-08-2008, 09:50 AM
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The Shadow of the Day
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Scotland
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I feel like that all of the time, I think that it's hard to get over things in your past if you feel that you haven't been properly cared for.
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I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
You didn't come this far just to come this far.
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08-08-2008, 10:28 AM
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struggling
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I've been through phases like that; but it was yrs and yrs ago. Maybe it's dependant personality disorder instead.
Last edited by Misunderstood. : 08-08-2008 at 10:28 AM.
Reason: typo
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The most profound things are inexpressible.
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08-08-2008, 11:27 AM
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L J
Join Date: Jul 2008
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i am bpd to so maybe its part and parcel of a very long list of symptoms
bpd sucks!
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