kind of need some advice

[beautiful_mistake]

my ex keeps msg me on facebook
saying he wants to meet up for a drink
yes i know he might just mean a drink
thing is he told me in a msg that he always loved me and he was sorry for being a dick

i dont think i want to go

i mean if i go and he takes that to mean something else and tell me he wants to get back with me and i dont want that i will feel so bad so id rather keep my distance

am i a bitch if i do this?

[blue_cloud]

i think by keeping your distance you are doing what is best for you and this is in no way being a bitch as you are saving him from getting the wrong message so you are being kind and also being kind to yourself xx

[crazykat]

Telling him you don't wanna go out for a drink is not being a bitch at all. You have to do whatever you feel most comfortable with. If you do end up going out for a drink with him, maybe you could talk to him first and tell him you are not interested in getting back together. In the end its up to you tho sweetheart. Take care
Kat xxx

[blondiebear]

I think it would be best if you didn't meet him for a drink then. Don't give him any false hope. Don't set yourself up for an awkward situation.

You are not a bitch. You are taking care of yourself. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

[dontcare]

In my experience - if you go for that drink you are giving a message that you want something more from the relationship - even if you really don't.
Be honest with your ex and tell them what you want - even if that is not to see them again - at least then they'll know where they stand.
Prolonging finished relationships just prolongs the pain and you are definately not being a bitch - you are being true to yourself

[Casper_Fading]

tell him you'd have a drink with him but you don't want to get with him if you actually want to go... but if you don't then DON"T! Honey, you're not being a bitch!