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29-07-2008, 01:07 PM
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Like a cat in a bag waiting to drown
Join Date: Jun 2008
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Triggering (SI) - Apparently...
‘You are only going to see a psychiatrist because you want to be told that you are mad so you can feel better about yourself and you are behaving worse than you ever have just to convince them of that....Freak...Freak...FREAK’
Thanks wife, just what I needed to hear. At least I understand now.
Last edited by HandThatFeeds : 29-07-2008 at 01:27 PM.
Reason: spelling
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Ranting here *trig SI/Abuse*
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29-07-2008, 02:25 PM
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L J
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that wasn't a very nice thing to say, i wish i had something to say to help but all i have is a hug and i will be thinking of you *hug*
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29-07-2008, 03:18 PM
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Bringing back the lost art of Sewing
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You understand that she has no understanding or compassion about this.
You are not a freak.
*hugs you*
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My husband is my best friend.
In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.
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29-07-2008, 10:59 PM
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It's okay. I have a supersoaker.
Join Date: Aug 2004
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*growls* people like that PISS ME OFF!
you are NOT anything like what se's saying. stupid cow >.<
though in my opinion people lash out when they get scared... so maybe that was it.
*cuddles* i'm just glad you're going to see someone!~
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"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
- Dr. Seuss
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30-07-2008, 09:13 AM
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Like a cat in a bag waiting to drown
Join Date: Jun 2008
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In the past she has been supportive sometimes and at other times not but you could be right…maybe she is scared (probably about what I am going to say to the psych but that’s another story). When I think about it like that, it does make sense.
Maybe in some sort of way she is right (not about the freak part) and I am seeking reasons for things that have happened rather than just moving on. A nice cosy label would, after all, explain it. Make it easy in a sort of ‘it wasn’t my fault, I’m……’ type way.
I’m confused. I don’t know what to think. I just don’t know any more.
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Ranting here *trig SI/Abuse*
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30-07-2008, 08:13 PM
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No Escape From Solitude
Join Date: Apr 2008
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ok i just gotta say WHAT THE ****???????
this is the woman who married you. she is SUPPOSED to stand by you...SUPPORT you. what happened to "in sickness and in health"?????
i dont give a damn if she understands or not.
she's just supposed to do it. end of.
sorry for the rant.
im sure what she said hit you hard.
*gentle snuggles*
much much love.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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A little Consideration, a little Thought for Others, makes all the difference.
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31-07-2008, 08:58 AM
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Like a cat in a bag waiting to drown
Join Date: Jun 2008
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Couples counselling would have been a great idea years ago but that would have meant me telling her there was a big enough problem to need it. Back then saying that really would not have been worth it!
Maybe I’ll think about it in the future but If I am honest my issues/SH started long before we even met (so I can’t pin that one on her) and I think that I need to deal with one thing at a time.
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Ranting here *trig SI/Abuse*
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