Triggering (SI) - I knew he didnt love me

yourguardianangeliris · 22-07-2008, 03:35 PM

Ok so i was suppose to get engaged today and after i thought about it i realized that both me and him just werent ready to take that next step... When i told him he got really angry and said that he didnt love me and that he was only doing it cause he knew i was financially well off...... I loved him tho i cant believe that he would do this....

bexie · 22-07-2008, 03:48 PM

*cuddles*
im sorry that thius has happend hun
xxxxxxx

Shenanigans · 22-07-2008, 05:32 PM

*cuddles*

How long have the two of you been together?
Do you think he might have said these things out of anger? Some people can say really hurtful things in the heat of the moment.

Take care of yourself hun, have you anyone to call/be with you right now?

Xxxxx

Sans Peur · 22-07-2008, 05:47 PM

Hey

I am sorry to hear this happened but perhaps he has over reacted with upset from what you said to him, people say things they dont mean when they are upset. Perhaps try and speak to him in a day or two when he calms down slightly.

I really hope this works out for you,as suggested above try and contact a friend/ family memebr to help you thorugh this difficult time.

Jane x

Namaste · 22-07-2008, 05:51 PM

Aw, I'm so sorry...
But thank goodness you didn't get engaged to him, because you deserve so much better tan him.
Trust me, he will get what's coming to him, and someday you'll find your true prince charming. Just wait, okay?

alienshe_cheesycake · 22-07-2008, 06:00 PM

It sounds like he must have been really dissapointed and then got angry and said something harsh just because he was angry
People say harsh things that they don't neccisarly mean when they are angry or dissapointed

I'm just going to repeat the advice others have given about waiting a few days to speak to him when he has calmed down a tad
hope your ok
xxxxxxxxxx

yourguardianangeliris · 22-07-2008, 06:39 PM

thanks........ i.. i think that im going to be ok... i have to see him again tonight and i dont know what im going to do. but i thnk that i will be alright. i loved him and i made the choice i thought was right i guess that he just wasnt willing to wait..