I'm glad you're calm now
It doesn't matter who said it first, or how old you are or anything like that on this site. It's the heart and care that goes into replying that matters. The fact you took the time to read, understand and try to support and help someone that matters.
We cannot help everyone, but if we can help one out of ten or twenty people, that's making a difference. Help is help, no matter how big or small, no matter what amount of difference it makes.
Take care of yourself, and please post more if you need too, we are here to listen.
*hugs*
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