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Old 12-07-2008, 10:23 PM   #1
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Triggering (Suicide) - Question... what do normal people think...? *TRIGGER SUICIDE*

*TRIGGER SUICIDE*

Everyone time I watch a TV programme and someone is ill/ hurt/ in trouble/ getting divorced/ bullied/ in an accident/ has been cheated on/ gets abused by family etc... (i mean, minor things as well as major things)...I always think "if that were me, I'd just kill myself".

I think that about everything. Every book I read or film I see, I just think - why don't they kill themselves? Surely that's the only way out?

I accept this isn't the way that a lot of people think but does anyone else think that?

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Old 12-07-2008, 10:39 PM   #2
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No :( I have the feeling that if I ever got professional support they would just say... "why are you here? theres nothing wrong with you. go back to your middle class perfect life."

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Old 12-07-2008, 11:38 PM   #3
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i think like that too so your really not alone . tbh i really dont know how others would think, this way of thinking has become so normal i cant really think any different.
not sure if that made any sense - it made sense in my head!!

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Old 12-07-2008, 11:40 PM   #4
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tbh i only know how i think. and i think that suicide is normal.
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thank god im not the only one! but feel bad that u feel this too :(

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Old 13-07-2008, 12:42 AM   #5
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i dont think that, but i can see how you could think that. personally, i only think about suicide in relation to my own suicide, so i only think abou killing myself and not others killing themselves (if that makes sense).



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Old 13-07-2008, 01:02 PM   #6
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I think like that all of the time, in fact I think I have posted about this before. No matter what happens to people on TV I always wonder why it doesn't lead them to attempt suicide. It might help for you to look at the coping strategies that they do use and see how they fit in with the situation. Suicide and self harm never really fit in with the situation and aren't logical methods of coping. Problem focused coping is the best way to deal with difficult times.

I agree with Trace, if you sought professional support I am sure that they would take your issues seriously and try to help you as much as they can. I hope that you're well, please get in touch any time. Take care.





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Old 13-07-2008, 01:57 PM   #7
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I think like that all the time. I think suicide probably is my coping stragey.

I always think "I couldn't live like that, i'd kill myself"
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Old 13-07-2008, 02:13 PM   #8
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also , i know this is really messed up but sometimes i will them to die just so they dont have to suffer anymore.
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Old 14-07-2008, 10:49 PM   #9
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thanks for everyones replies, guys. i thought it today about chicken little (when his dad says he doesn't believe in him anymore, and everyone thought he was lying... i was just like 'why not kill yourself?!'), wtf is wrong with me, I want a cartoon to die?!

i think i have too many issues for a professional to help me :(

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