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Old 20-06-2007, 07:37 PM   #1
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What do you like and dislike about being at home

ok i like that it's quiet at home and there are less people to deal with. i dont like being nagged at to do somthing useful.

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Old 20-06-2007, 07:47 PM   #2
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I don't like being at home now, because I always feel like my parents are 'watching' my every move and they constantly ask 'are you feeling better now? Happier? You okay?' and I like to just hide away in my room and be forgotten. Sometimes wish that I hadn't told them.



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Old 20-06-2007, 07:50 PM   #3
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I hate beingg bullied and abused at home.
I like ,, um ,, ill have a think of this one if i think of one thing i like about being at home then ill edit it in :)

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Old 20-06-2007, 08:01 PM   #4
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i like being in my room specificaly, because it is my own place where i always seem to belong. I like seeing my dog and my little brother can be as funny as hell.
What i dont like are my parents. They are exremely judgemental and can be very emotionaly abusive. Whenever i go out somewhere it is just amazing to get away from home, but then the reality of having to go back home sinks in again. =/

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Old 20-06-2007, 08:02 PM   #5
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I like being able to hide away in my room,
I don't like it when my dad drinks and I don't like the pressure of having to pretend to be perfectly together for everyone.




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Old 20-06-2007, 10:21 PM   #6
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I like the sanctuary of my room. I like when my Mum is home and we just sit and drink a coffee and talk about normal, everyday stuff.

I don't like when I'm alone in the house. I don't like hiding in my room for days on end but there feels like there is no where else to run to.



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Old 20-06-2007, 10:31 PM   #7
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i like being able to hide away in my room

i don't like the arguments/fighting/abuse at home

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Old 20-06-2007, 10:51 PM   #8
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I like being at home because I can let my guard down and just relax, play with the dog and cats.
I dislike being at home because arguments are frequent and I get bored rather easily.

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Old 20-06-2007, 10:52 PM   #9
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i like my bed, and the computer. the rest of the time i avoid being home.



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Old 21-06-2007, 12:11 AM   #10
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I like that I can stay in pajamas all day and play video games, but I dont like that I have to compete with my little brother and that my step dad is around.




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Old 21-06-2007, 02:02 AM   #11
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i hate being at home cos the house is always a mess from my brother or when my mum gets lazy which is most of the time.
so i just hate the mess nd the crap that goes on.

dunno what i like... i guess i like my room nd when i come in the house if the dog is in she runs to the door nd barks at me then goes back to bed.
and when she needs a wee she comes up stairs nd i can hear her coller shaking as she walks about so i open my door nd she comes in, then i take her out later on or then if im not busy :).

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Old 21-06-2007, 05:04 AM   #12
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I like that things are familiar, and that I get to see my family. I also like that my parents are there to do things like schedule an appointment or even call to see if a store is open before I go, because the rest of the time those things usually don't get done because I'd have to talk on the phone. It's relaxing to be at home, and I like not having to worry about trying to be a grown-up all the time.

I don't like that I have to keep secrets more carefully. At school I don't worry about people looking at my arms or worrying about how much I eat, because no one could do anything about it, and I'm not close enough to anyone that they're likely to try. But at home I have to worry about keeping my arms covered because my family isn't afraid to ask what happened, and since my mom's a psychologist I'm sure she'd figure it out eventually. I also don't like pretending that I've only lost weight because of the meds, and I'm not happy with it, and having to eat normal meals more often.

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Old 21-06-2007, 08:41 AM   #13
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I dislike the verbal abuse and constantly being around an alcoholic. I dislike being around alcohol for the most part and it's a constant part of being here. I dislike that it constantly smells of cigarettes and I usually suffocate walking to the kitchen or restroom. I dislike that the sun hits my window all throughout the day and it gets 5+ degrees hotter in my room compared to the rest of the place. I hate how it's always a mess no matter how much cleaning I do. I hate how I'm treated like I'm a child when I'm an adult and all my movements and choices have to be questions, criticized and then all aspects of my life my dad tries to control.

I like the water pressure in the shower. I also like that I have a walk-in closet. I like that I have cable in my room. It's also nice that not all the bills are my sole responsibility.

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Old 21-06-2007, 08:55 AM   #14
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I like being at home because I pay no rent.
I don't like eing at home because of the yelling, there never is any silence, the house is always dirty, my mom is awful, there are too many people here, I have to be in my room most of the time, my mom sleeping in the living room bothers me, it's hot in here, there never is any food on the fridge, there are ants everywhere, the house itself is falling apart, we have no cable anymore, the kitchen often stinks...I'm gonna stop.




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Old 21-06-2007, 09:56 AM   #15
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I dislike the CONSTANT fighting between my dad and sister (and the fear of the abuse coming back), my mother's heavy drinking, and the worry. The emotional and verbal abuse. I also dislike not having a room to run to, and the fact that I've lost it to an ex-druggie(?) sister who got pregnant by some guy she'd known for a short amount of time (who, of couse, is not around anymore)...
I like...
My imagination? lol

Sorry for the rant-esque post.

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Old 21-06-2007, 10:27 AM   #16
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i dont like being at home because at times i feel really trapped and i also feel like i dont have any privacy...and i dont like my mum and dad constantly fighting..
i like being at home though because my family always TRY to support me and deep down i know that...and i guess i dont feel lonely when im around my family at times..






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Old 21-06-2007, 05:15 PM   #17
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I don't like being home because of my grandparents. They live with us and are just.....I don't even want to go into all of it. But needless to say, if it weren't for them, I'd LOVE being home from college for the summer. As it is, I'm taking every shift I can at my job so I don't have to be at home.



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Old 22-06-2007, 08:18 PM   #18
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I like being at home because i have internet access/a bed/toilet/shower basically anything i need. I'm lucky i'm not homeless etc..

I dislike having to be around my dad.

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Old 25-06-2007, 01:51 PM   #19
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I don't live at home, which makes it better for me.
I can leave when things get too much.

I like it because when my sister isn't there I have a good chat with my Mum and Dad
I don't like it because my Mum seems to think I'm the least likely of her 4 kids to be upset if she talks about her worries about Dad's health. She's always been so negative - he had a stiff neck a little while ago so that was obviously the start of MS or meningitis. He forgets things, no worse than me or anyone else, so he was obviously getting Alzyemers (sp?).
I don't like it because at the moment it seems that all the other kids are living there (my twin and her daughter are, my oldest brother and his girlfriend are, and my other brother is at the weekends) - it's a large house! They are causing a complete mess, they don't clear it up, and Mum has to do it because Dad won't. I do as much as I can when I'm there, but I'm not there all the time.
And they are all older than me so they should be able to realise it themselves!

Sigh!
But I also like it because my Welsh cat is there, and she's gorgeous!

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