Baby's

hopeless · 18-06-2007, 08:37 PM

Well i already have a daughter with my fiance, and i was pregnant again, but i lost it, cause i was stupid.
But anyway.
I really want to have another baby, and at the moment, i'm having really strong feelings about that.
I know that it's definately not the right time for another and that i'm probably just being pathetic, but i can't help the way i feel.

I stop ranting now, sorry.

Stellata · 18-06-2007, 08:45 PM

Bioloogical urges and instincts don't know about the right time and everything...I don't feel its pathetic at all.

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your second child, I would imagine that you are still grieving, and may in some part of you feel desperate to fill the hole that that child left. It might help to focus on working through your grief, and perhaps finding some forgiveness for yourself, and love and gratitude for your daughter.

raistlin · 20-06-2007, 11:08 PM

It's fne to rant. No need to appologize! I don't really have much to add. But just letting you know I read and I am sorry to hear you lost your second child. I hope you are feeling better today.

LouiseJennifer · 20-06-2007, 11:12 PM

Im so sorry to hear about your losses, I do understand how you feel having been there myself, and I do understand the urges, They dont always come at the right times.

<3

lucylou · 21-06-2007, 11:27 AM

Just sending big hugs xxx been there

charcoal feathers · 21-06-2007, 11:32 AM

I'm sorry about the lose of your baby.
You've said it yourself, it's not the right time to have another baby. Wait a while until you're ready. I understand the urges and i think seeing as you've just lost a child it's making those urges stronger. It's not pathetic.

take care x