ok so i have done some research for you....
Let it dry out throughly in a warm, dry place. Do not turn it on until you've let it sit for a few days. I've seen two ipods that survived complete cycles in the washing machine.
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The best advice I can give you is to leave it in a warm dry place for a day or so. I've read that placing it in a bowl and covering with uncooked rice aids in the drying process. Don't try to use it or plug it in. If it still does not work after a couple of days, it is probably toast. Also, I would not leave it on a sunny dashboard - the extreme heat in a sunny car can do as much damage as the water.
So you seem to be doing things right.
Good luck i hope it works.
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