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03-06-2008, 04:47 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: York UK
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I'm on the road to nowhere
I've been in therapy for months now and feel I am on the road to nowhere, I am too inarticulate when I'm there and I don't now how it is supposed to progress. I feel there must be a method to being a patient that I just don't get.
Does anyone else feel that therapy is getting them nowhere or on the other hand has anyone found it helps them and why??
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"I laugh, I love, I hope, I try, I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. And I know you do the same too so we are not that different you and I.
You'll be surprised to know how far you can go from the point where you thought it was the end.
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03-06-2008, 08:39 PM
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the world will never take my heart
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Liverpool
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You have no idea how much I can emhisise with you
I've been in therapy for 2 months now (only 3 more months worth of sessions) and I often wonder, what the hell am I doing here?
I mean, we just get no progress done whatsoever
I just go in, bitch for an hour then come out
So far I don't really see practically how it's changing me....sucks
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"In the driest whitest stretch of pains infinate desert, I lost my sanity, and found this rose"
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03-06-2008, 09:13 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: North Yorkshire
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Yep I'm the same.
Been in counselling for over 5 months and I don't think it's helped at all.
Maybe all it does take is time or another approach might help.
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See I cannot feel this, not matter how you try and in the real world, there's no goodbyes.
Stare at the hands, you know you want to ;).
"memento vivere"
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03-06-2008, 09:23 PM
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verthi ther ath gothi
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: belgium
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start therapy 2 times. first times i stopped after 6 months ( after 12 sessions) had the feeling that it was giong wors then before. that was in 2OO6. i start again, differant place in 2007 for 3 months. i felt good with those sessions, but i didn't feel safe in my country, so i stopt therapy and moved to a other country.
but i realise that it was stupid to stop, maybe i was over si, if i kept going.
so i think, i you going to therapy, and you are feeling yourself good with it, it will help.
but it can take a while before you find the best therapy
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03-06-2008, 10:05 PM
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Turned Away In Disgrace
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Hampshire
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Therapy is not a short process as I am sure you have figured out, and can take years. Have you discussed how you feel with your therapist? This may help as they can maybe try different methods that might help more.
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You should make amends with you.
If only for better health.
But if you really want to live.
Why not try and Make Yourself?
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04-06-2008, 09:20 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: York UK
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Thanks for the support
I did try to discus it with her once and she gave me some activities to do and then they were never mentioned again and I'm too much of a wuss to bring it up myself. I don't want to change to anyone else as I think I like her and she is far better than counselling, I have a psychologist, and part of me is afraid that if she thinks there is progress then she will stop the sessions much too soon when I am not ready.
I just find if I have a bad session then I cut myself because I feel I'm doing it wrong.
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"I laugh, I love, I hope, I try, I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. And I know you do the same too so we are not that different you and I.
You'll be surprised to know how far you can go from the point where you thought it was the end.
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