Not sure where to post as it's not support I'm looking for, more other people's wedding stories
I get married in 7 weeks and 4 days. Nerves are starting to set in. I'm not scared as such, just nervous that something is going to go wrong. Anyone got any advice to help with the nerves?
I think its only natural to worry something going to go wrong. youve probably put alot of time effort and money in to organising..
but hun remember how much you spend, weather its sunny or rainy, if someone doesnt turn up WHATEVER the whole point of the day is for you and your other half to make your communitment to each other more...concrete (?)...legal, shown to the world etc.
So as long as you love each other and the day achieves what it should well then nothing else really matters!
“Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles.”
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My advice would be to keep it real! Perfection rarely occurs. At the end ofthe day the only true thing you have control over is the love for each other and the will to get married and unify your relationship. As long as the married part occurs then treat everything else on the day as a bonus.
Matthew xxx
~Phoenix~ is my Little Sister of Awesomeness and Self-Delusion :P Bitter Angel is my Mitten Animad is my Top Trump All Im Living For - Is my beautiful and special daughter who isnt called Kim but will moan if i dont add her :P
I have no real words, other than to say I think you've already made the hard part, you've agreed to spend that time together, that commitment, and your wedding is a way of making that heard and official, and for you to celebrate that love with those that care about you. Am sure you're going to have a day to remember, no matter what happens, because it'll be a special day, for you and your partner :) x
Change the voices in your head,
Make them like you instead
i only had about 7 weeks to plan my wedding!
i regret it not being bigger,
i regret not having the money to spend
BUT
i love the fact that its cemented matt and i together on paper
i love that we're still madly in love
AND i love that we can have a celebration minus the registrar's fees in a few years time.
mand x
Mand, South Wales, Full-time working, single mother to 2 scarily independent girls.
I AM A PROUD PLUMERIA SISTER
Having done it twice, both completly different, first was a big church wedding with sit down meal etc etc and second was a registry service in a big hotel with a buffet and disco. The only thing I would say to you is remember its your day, you invited people to celebrate with you, so if they want to talk to you they can walk upto you. Say hello to people but relax and enjoy the day.
The first time I spent all day worried that noone was enjoying themselves and talking to everyone that I didn't enjoy myself.
The second time I told myself "if they want to speak to me then they can find me I'm not hard to notice I'm the one in the big dress!" and I had the best day ever.
Enjoy every moment!!
Congratulations!
Kerry (Cakey) my sister and my bestest friend, Lynnie (lynnieb98) is my ryl niece, Chelsea (Euphoria Blossom) my daughter, Ann (Icebreak) my friend and Kim (Bitter Angel) my Guardian Angel
I got married a year and a half ago, I guess it wasn't you're typical wedding, My husband lived in Cuba so we got married over there because he still didn't have his visa to come over here. None of my friends from England could afford to come and I guess that's my only regret, my parents came. I asorted the paperwork (lots of it!) bought my dress and his suit without anyone's help or advise and he sorted all the food, car, party arrangements etc all alone. we were both pretty scared and nervous because right down till the last minute it was uncertain if we'd have enough money and all the necessary papers.
I was unbareable the morning of the wedding, I had seven cuban mothers trying to do my hair and dress me and I freaked, they gave me tranquillisers and everything went perfectly. I was scared right until the moment of seeing him at the registry office that Erne would bottle it and that I'd be left waiting. Bi=ut he was there. The wedding was small scale, we had to ration the buffet and beer was the only alcoholic drink at the party which we had in a friends house, we drank cider rather than champagne and
never had a honeymoon but the house was packed with friends and dancing and we have a million photos and a cheesy video to show to the people that were left behind in the UK.
Erne got his visa, we're still madly in love and waiting for baby number one.
Long post I'm soory I goy carried away reminiscing ...
My advice would be to enjoy yourself on the day and dance loads. In the end the wedding is only the start to something that is hopefully special and treasured for a very long time.
