so sorry for another thread...bit of a change to the first thread, better explanation.

[Merc]

it's ridiculous i know..but i looked and i cant stuff this into any other of my threads...
so sorry in advance

something VERY humiliating and embarassing has happened..and im sooooo ashamed..

My hubby had to change our password (& user name? idk ) on ebay because of me impulse buying.
I never really spent much. The most i ever spent on one item was $40 dollars and that was for a set of EIGHT shorts in different colours, name brand, tag attached, long shorts as i only have one pair.

So reallty i wouldnt call that 'excessive. What do you htink? The problem was more of wpending lots on little items...think 'Oh its only a few dollars, big deal" But we all know it adds uop......

But how humiliating to have to 'ask' if i can buy something...

I feel like a child asking for a cookie...

how low can i get???

romp



[due to a particular PM i recieved i realize i didn't explain quite right: I ASKED HIM to change it. BEFORE it could become a promblem. Sorry, i should have explained better!)

[Pomegranate]

Don't blame yourself sweetie. Everybody has their little vices and I can so understand the lure of ebay. I understand maybe feeling embarased about having to ask to buy stuff but he is your husband, he loves you and I doubt he is judging you for it or anything like that. *hugs* Sorry I have no real advice x

One of my best friends got banned from ebay BY EBAY!

Dont worry, you got nothing to worry about on her :)

*cuddles*

[chocostashchick]

hey shopping is as addictive as any other behavior
there is no shame in that
and if anything i think you are being pretty mature about it, not low at all, because you are admitting that it might be excessive/might be a problem and you are being compliant with the whole letting your hubby make sure it's under control thing. that's pretty responsible of you!

[Yellow]

ive never really had the shopping problem.
but at one point last year, i became really irresponsible with my meds and was living with my mother at the time.....so i asked her to hold on to them for me and she handed them out to me as i needed them.
i understand that it does feel humiliating...but it was the best for me.
and now i have control over my meds again. i think it was quite responsible for you to ASK him to do this. it shows that you recognized that you might have a problem and you took the steps to remedy it until you can control it on your own.
loves.
xxxxx