Im not a good person and i shouldnt be around and im crap. I think someone who doesnt lower the tone quite as much and who actually has something decent to say should do the plumeria thing. I dont think im suited.
sorry but.
Bye
~Phoenix~ is my Little Sister of Awesomeness and Self-Delusion :P Bitter Angel is my Mitten Animad is my Top Trump All Im Living For - Is my beautiful and special daughter who isnt called Kim but will moan if i dont add her :P
I know that this is your decision and everything but...
We love you here Matthew!! You do so much good for Vets, you make us giggle, you keep us amused on the general forums, you support us when we need it and you've just helped us to get a cool new 'thing' in vets. The plumeria getting lei'd is just fantastic!
Don't lurk because you think youre not good enough, because youre pretty darn great. We like you being here Matt.
Please dont lurk again, it is so nice to see you posting which is why i have been coming back.I like seeing familiar faces esepcially those that have been kind to me.
I think you have something decent to say. Please don't go. I think since the Plumeria symbol thing was your idea then you do deserve to do it (and lei all the vets) but if you don't want to then obviously that is your choice and everyone will respect that. Vets wouldn't be the same without constant sexual innyourendos from members and your one of the best! xx
i know what its like to need a lurk every now and again... as long as the occasional lurk doesnt become an every day habit... where lurking becomes an obsessive fixture in your life to the detriment of your friends and family...
if you feel your lurking is becoming a serious problem then you should consider the 12 step lurking program...
Here are the 12 steps of Lurkers Anonymous
Step 1 : We admitted we were powerless over lurking - that our lives had become unmanageable.
Step 2 : Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to non-lurking status.
Step 3 : Made a decision to turn our mouse and our keyboard over to the care of God as we understood Him.
Step 4 : Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of lurking habits.
Step 5 : Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our lurking.
Step 6 : Were entirely ready to have God remove all these lurking instincts.
Step 7 : Humbly asked Him to remove our lurking habits.
Step 8 : Made a list of all persons we had lurked around, and became willing to make conversation with them all.
Step 9 : Made direct contact with such people wherever possible, except when to do so would shock them or others with our lack of lurking.
Step 10 : Continued to take personal inventory and when we were lurking promptly admitted it.
Step 11 : Sought through communal prayer and meditation to improve our lack of lurking and conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry out communication.
Step 12 : Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other lurkers and to practice these principles in all our online affairs.
No worries. I've been sober in AA for 13 years. I once made the 12 steps of housework, starting that we are powerless over other people and their habits!
Matthew, please stay. We need your wit. You are so supportive and helpful. You are a good person.
I will accept your decision. I will miss you.
My husband is my best friend.
In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.
its your decision babe.
you will be sorely missed.
please pop in when you feel you can.
always keeping you in my thoughts.
much much love.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
btw....loving the 12 steps of lurking!!!!!
A little Consideration, a little Thought for Others, makes all the difference.
*cuddles Matthew* i agree with Mirriam however if you'd prefer to lurk thats your choice and i dont think anyone has the right to tell you not to (no offence meant to anyone). just please remember we're thinking of you, we love you and you are more than welcome back any time you wish because i personally think vets isnt going to be the same without you. i'll miss you *huggles, cuddles and squishes for a wonderful Matthew* and please dont argue the wonderful part because you are!
Don't leave please. It has been simply wonderful to see you around here. Im sure not one person will disagree with me when I say you light up the place. You bring something special to Vets that noone esle can, and when you aren't around, Vets loses something special. You.
Please please dont go. We all love you so so so much. We need you around.
xxx
yeah, matthew we do love you here
i hope you keep posting
there's no need for you to do the plumeria thing if don't want, ok?
but also there's no need for you to lurk just becos of the 'Lei me Matthew thing'
i also wanted to 'get lei'd' by you but it was just good fun for me
just that
sorry if i put too much pressure on you, matthew
hope you feel better soon and start posting again
*hugs*
Oi!! My Pengy "Bitch" Boy.... You lurk all you need to my dear..but I REFUSE to let anyone lei me until your return! it would just be wrong... No sir'ee mister! No way, I won't do it...no, no, no, no, no, no, no and....
....guess what....
Nope!
Much love to you my dear, you are totally beautiful...
Debs xxx
I'm not going to beg, I'm not going to pontificate, I'm telling you no.
End of.
Well it breaks my heart to see you this way,
The beauty in life, where's it gone?
And somebody told me you were doing okay,
Somehow I guess they were wrong.
Don't leave. Don't lurk. Don't go hiding in your cave and certainly don't put WOW in front of RYL - you know we're better, even than Moomoo!
Has something happened to make you feel like this? You know you can talk to me about anything and everything, right? & you know I care loads and loads right? & you know if you don't come back you'll have a little piglet knocking on your door who will then tie you up with only RYL and a mouse/keyboard for company until you post! (Don't put it past me ).
I hope you're okay sweetheart. And I for one have really loved seeing you around here again (although I did have to dig out my newspaper with the eye-holes cut in it ).
matthew, i feel a promotion is in order. you are now 'chief pengy lei-er of all vets'. As such you are required to keep us updated and return as soon as possible, if only to post smutty fun threads. love you loads, mand x
Mand, South Wales, Full-time working, single mother to 2 scarily independent girls.
I AM A PROUD PLUMERIA SISTER
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No sir'ee mister! No way, I won't do it...no, no, no, no, no, no, no and.....gif "rose")
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