im having such a shit time at school at the mo, in the past week i hav had peole through food at me at lunch and yesterday sum boy threw a pair of scissors at me.
i always get shit in school iv been beaten up, spat at and abuse shouted at me alot of the time.
i hav complained to teachers about all of this and even told my head teacher that i hav had people cuming and telling me to slit my wrists, he jus said he would talk to them and refused to do anymore, despite knowing that this has been going on for about 2 yrs. then what really pissed me off was when i found out that he had suspended sum1 for dying their hair pink!
i jus cant cope with this shit anymore its really getting me down. im getiing really desperate and jus need all this shit to stop i dnt even care how anymore!
hey hunni
i know it is hard. i think school should do more to help with problems like this. i hate how schools deal with things.
sorry things are so bd at the mo.
if u need to talk pm me
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you - it's awful that the teachers aren't doing anything. Do you have any close friends who stick up for you when this sort of thing happens? You need to tell someone else, because this has to get sorted; it's not fair on you!
This sounds like really serious bullying, you could go to the police. Do your parents know? I'm not surprised you feel you're not coping, I know I wouldn't if this was happening to me. *cuddles*. Remember that you really don't deserve this, at all. Bullying is disgusting.
Take care. xo
"When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far as I know none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge - they were all messages of love. If you look for it, I've got a sneaky feeling you'll find that love actually is all around.”
Yes its awful the teachers arnt doing anything, you really dont deserve this, no one does. Do your parents know? Getting the police involed can be a good thing, as they can go to the school and demand to get things sorted, you shouldnt be abused anywhere, and what they are doing is a criminal offence.
I know its hard but in the meantime ignore them, could you change school? Rember you are better than alot of these people
"Its not how long a star shines, what is remembered is the brightness of the light"
Honey, that's horrible. Your teachers should help you. There's no excuse for them letting this happen. The bullying sounds serious- what they're doing is illegal, so you could go to the police. Could you talk to your parents about it? Angry parents tend to scare school officials into taking action. I know how difficult it is to cope with bullying! I'm so sorry. You are so much better than them, and you have so much more potential than they have. Just remember that. I'm always here if you wanna talk. *cuddles you*
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Hiya, this sounds like me a few years ago until i had a major breakdown before school one day- i couldnt stop crying and refused to go. My parents took action. They were in seeing the deputy head, i had a meeting with the deputy head and i was moved forms. That was the best thing i could have done for myself. You don't deserve this. If you need a chat PM me, I know exactly what youre going through. Good luck, stay safe xxx
thanks for replying.
um... i hav told my parents and my teachers despite not liking to talk about stuff.
when i got beaten up i got the police involved but because there was alot of them and only me and my friend, they denied it and my "friend" refused to make a statement so the police said they couldnt do anything.
so basically there is nothing else i can do as the police cant do anything my school wont do anything.
My grades are usually all A and A*, and thats all my teachers really care about. they dont think it has affected me so bad (despite me coming into school with blood dripping down my arms) as my grades havent gone down.
i dont want to move school as i hav no self confidence and am cripplingly shy, so i hav very few options and none of them are very healthy.
my life is just a total fucking mess and i cant cope with it at all
I know how hard it is to start anew when you're shy like that, but it seems to me that no one is gonna do anything for you at your current school.
I think you should really put some thought into this solution, especially if all your other solutions are unhealthy.
Take care *hugs*
It wouldn't be running away. It would be restarting the life you deserve.
I was bullied like hell when I was at school and wish I could've left. It has left me with a terrible phobia of classroom style things and even groups. I even changed my name by deed poll because they used my name as part of bullying.
I would be really strong with your head teacher or tutor and say you'll contact the local authority or council about their lack of support or controlling of the bullying.
And if ANYTHING happens tell the police the more you tell the more they will listen.
Also does you school have any cctv in it? Like at entrance? if something happens there you can get evidence maybe?
Sending you huge hugs a sI know how it making you feel. I'm actually near tears reading and writing this as I know just how it is for you. I wish I could come and make it all better.
I want to kiss the bottom of the ocean before I burst through its surface into the sunlight, otherwise I will always be wondering about what was left unseen at the bottom
i'm tired of chasing my dreams. i'm just gonna ask where they're going, and hook up with them later.
this sort of sounds like my whole life. i understand what its like 2 b bullied, harrassed, insulted, yelled at for no reason, etc. i think schools should do more about bullying and harrassment cuz no one should hav to take that, even u. i dont understand y teachers and principals can suspend someone for dying their hair pink, but dont even lift a finger to someone being bullied and having dangerous objects and other stuff thrown at them.
listen, u shouldnt kill urself over something that u didnt cause. i think u should tell someone. who cares if the teachers arent helping? that's their problem, not urs. i say get the police involved if u have 2. whatever it takes for all of this to stop. suicide wont solve ur problems. suicide only takes u away from the problems, which makes u just as much of a coward as the ppl who're doing all that to u. im not calling u a coward, im just saying suicide is not the answer.
I am nothing more than a little girl inside who cries out for help, yet i always try to hide
I was bullied badly through my 8th and 9th year of school. I was alone like you because my teachers refused to intervene. They said i only got what was coming for me (can you believe that????).
Anyways, i know how you feel. They talked of sending me to another school, perhaprs even boarding school but i refused. Because, also like you, i didn't wanna run away. I wanted to stay and make them see that they could NOT take me down. But even though this made me stay true to myself it was also a decision that seriously fucked my life up even now so many years later.
I am forever marked by this bullying. And hunni, if you decide to switch school it won't be like running away. It has taken me years to see how smart it would have been of me to get the hell outta there. You deserve better. You are a good person. You should be treated kindly and with respect.
I understand why you wanna stay and prove to them that they can't get you down. And i think that's admirable. Because i know first hand how hard it is. But IF you choose to leave this school you still won't have run away. Just remember that. You are ALWAYS better than those pathetic bullies!!!!!
