Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - My family are in denial..

[sarah2412]

I recently tried to tell my mom about the time i was abused and she just shunned me and hasnt spoke to me since about it. I know she is probably in denial but it makes me think she doesnt believe me and im attention seeking which im not its taken me 9 years to even bring up the subject. Its brought up all old feelings of being ashamed, feeling dirty and terrified please help..

[Sometimes Crazy]

Hey Sarah,

Well done on finally speaking out! I think that when a parent learns their child was abused, it must be a massive shock. They may feel guilty for not knowing, feel like it's their fault - so they deny it happened.

I'm sure your Mum will calm down in time, although it must be hard for you. Maybe try writing down these feelings or keeping yourself distracted with something safe you enjoy? PM me anytime you need to talk, hun, and well done again! You are really brave :)

Chelsea xx

[green.eyes]

i agree
congrats on speaking out, chances are your mumdoesnt know how to react. maybe tell her what you'd like to happen in terms of her reactions?
stay safe
*hugs*