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Old 06-05-2008, 12:05 AM   #1
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Triggering (SI/Sexual Abuse) - I dont know what to do..i need help

I feel as though I can not breathe, I just went to my doctor office today (my gynecologist) I have not seen her since I was raped by my father and his friend back in January. I went in today just for a regular exam but found out I am pregnant. I just cant even think It is putting so many thoughts in my head I feel like I need to cut so bad.


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Old 06-05-2008, 12:13 AM   #2
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I really don't know what to say, but I am so so sorry you have to go through this. I really hope you find the strength not to cut! I'm struggling not to right now!
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Old 06-05-2008, 05:12 PM   #3
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OH I'm so so sorry that you're going through this right now,
is there anyone there that you can speak to? to help you decide what to do?

please don't harm yourself. none of what happend is your fault and there is no reason why you should punish yourself,
you're worth more than that

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Old 06-05-2008, 08:26 PM   #4
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*hugs* i'm so sorry you're goin through this
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Old 08-05-2008, 12:47 AM   #5
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Hi Ashley,

I'm so sorry this is happening, love. I can't imagine what you're going through. If you can though, you need to tell someone and get help. You can't deal with this alone, no one could.

Is there absolutely anyone you can trust with this? Especially a doctor/nurse? I'm here for you if you ever need me, just PM me. Take care hun *safe cuddles*

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Old 09-05-2008, 06:51 AM   #6
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I'm really sorry that you're going through this. If you ever need to talk to anyone about this here, you are more than welcome to pm me. I got pregnant through incest as well.

You need to tell the gyno that the child is a quite possibly a product of incest because there are some big issues with incest pregnancies, one being that they are more prone to being miscarried.



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Old 09-05-2008, 11:25 AM   #7
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Im sorry you are going through this, stay strong. Please pm me anytime if you want to chatxx



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Old 11-05-2008, 04:57 PM   #8
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Im sorry these events happened, you say you were told you were pregnant, did they offer you anybody to talk to about this, obviously it is a big deal for anyone, but especially in this case the circumstances surrounding your pregnancy.

dou you see a counsellor? is there anyboy you can talk to about what you want to do now.

if you wanna talk just pm me.
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