please help me help my friend!

[joyous broken thing]

...she's recently been kicked out of her house (family home)

she is still living in our town,whereas i am 70miles away at uni at the moment.

she is 19, a popular, wonderful girl with a job, many friends and a supportive boyfriend.

despite this i still worried for her, but i'm not sure what i can do to help, let alone what i should do...

any advice?

anne x

[zoey]

I think what you can do to help her out is moral support and try your best to enlighten her about the situation.

It is natural for you to be worried because she is your friend and you care for her. It also helps if you pray for her.

[jessye]

Heya,
I've not got any experience in this but i would say that the best thing you can do is let her know that you're there if she needs to talk. Perhaps try and take her mind off it somehow. Having girly nights out when you get a chance to go back home. Send her silly emails or pictures that remind you of good times together. It sounds like she's got a good support network as it is but letting her know you're there too and care about how she's getting on can only help.

Good luck
x

[joyous broken thing]

thank you for the advice!
i think the main problem is generally that i am frustrated that i can't be there for her (in a literal sense)
i hope you are both well x

[TimesLikeThese]

it can be frustrating when you're not there to help them up close and personal, but moral support and good ol' chats are just as affective and appreciated :) take care xxx