WTF?!?

[Circle Of Fire]

Ok so this situation really took me off my gaurd! For the last week me and my Ex have been flirting and stuff, and insultign the hell out of eachother but in a funny way if you know what i mean.

So for the last few days we have been grabbing eachothers asses for a laugh and standing close together and all. So today i went up to him and says "im sorry" he asked what for and i kissed him on the chak and said "for that" then laughed. half an hour later we were in the school common room and he went outside to the balcony, i assumed he was at th toilet then after like 5 minutes i thought - I bet he's waiting out there for me.

So i went to the loo the came out and met him on the balcony...waiting...we were just talking...i was rambling pish and startign to forget who i was and what was going to happen, it was liek i was someone else. Then he was sayign my skirt was really nice and looking all embarrased, he grabbed my phone off me and i pushed him into a wall and then he put his arms round my waist and pulled me into him and we started kissing!

I was in a pure state of shock - and im usually one hell of a calm individual - it was as if i was...someoen else and had no cnontrol. Then after he said somethign liek "i feel nothing" and walked away and i was just like wtf!!??

I know it was a shitty thing to say but im just so supprised to be hurt or anything! Is that weird, i mean surely when saome says somthgin liek that to you you should feel someonthg?? now...what the heck do i do now when i go back to school and have to see him??

[green.eyes]

act like nothing happened.
souns like he was confusedabout his feelings for you. i agree it wasa shitty thing to say and it may be awkward for a few days but ifyou carry on as friends it might be easier.
good luck

[Merc]

What a total sh*tty thing to say!!! My god, no wonder you're confused. I think the anger will hit soon tho;you're still 'in shock' and havent fully absorbed it yet.
When yousee him again, simply WALK THE OTHER WAY, OR totally IGNORE him..hard i know...but someone who treats you like you DO NOT need in your life!!
Im so sorry he said such a terrible thing
take care luv, and keep talking if it helps ok???
romp

[88shelz]

aww hun cnt believe he said that.
at least you know how he feels!! thats the good point!
wait and see what he does. if he gets on like nothing happened then go along with it. its best all round that he dont get any satisfaction from knowing how you felt(or didnt feel as the case may be)

[GirlWithTheBrokenSmile]

Thats pretty harsh, my ex tried kissing me the other day to 'See if there was any feelings left,' I wouldn't let him but its still better that he asked than just argh...that would have really annoyed me, but hm yes best to act like nothing happened, but start flirting with his mates i'd say :D but thats me, and i'm a bitch lol xx

[TimesLikeThese]

he's probably confused about his feelings and wanted to "check" if this is what he wanted. after he walked out like that, I'd say that it wasn't what he was looking for - I'm afraid to say. Very strange and hurtful thing to say though, I'm not surprised you're confused. Go back to school pretending that nothing happened. Don't mention it to him unless he mentions it first. That's what I'd say. Take care xx