Ok so theres this guy who likes me. And he wants me to be his girlfriend. But I don’t wanna be him or anyone at the moment; I just came out of a relationship (I was dumped cos I cut) and im still pretty hurt. So ive told this guy I only want his friendship, but he just keeps insisting and lately hes making me look like the bad guy! Like im an evil girl just cos I wont accept him as my bf. And he wants me to call him and to see me everyday and when he doesn’t he gets angry! And I just don’t know what to do anymore! I don’t wanna be mean to him, so what should I do?
Whoa, steer clear. I was going to say give it a few months while you get over your just-ended relationship and see how you feel then, but if he's harrassing you just because you knocked him back, then I don't think he's worth it. He doesn't sound like much of a friend, let alone a boyfriend. If he continues bugging you, then maybe tell a family member, or a teacher or somebody?
Yeah, i agree. If you're just out of a relationship, and still hurt, i wouldn't jump straight into another one. You've just got to tell this guy bluntly that you do not want to go out with him. He sounds slightly possessive too, i'm not sure that's the kind of relationship i'd want to be in.
Don't let yourself get talked into it. If you have to be mean, then so be it. He can't keep pestering you. If he does, you should tell someone. A friend, or teacher or someone. When someone likes me, i generally ignore their calls etc. It's mean, but they leave me alone.
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But if i still believe you love me, maybe i'll survive.
So i tell myself you're coming home, like you've done a million times.
mmm this guy sounds desperate.
tell him in a nice wayto lay off or he has no chance!!
tell him honestly that you're not ready for a relationship as you have just come out of one which has left you hurt. ask for him to give u some space and time before he ruins any chance (if any) that he has!
if he cant respect your wishes now then he wont respect them in a relationship...point that out and follow your heart. xx
he does not sound like much of a friend or a boyfriend, i think you should stay clear not be forsed into anything especially when your just out of a realationship. take care xx
