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Should I say something?
This has been bothering me for a while now. I've tried to not get involved but I'm starting to feel like I should say something.
My best friend's got this other really good friend who she's known for years. Before it sounds like I'm just being jealous or something I wanna say this other friend is a really nice girl. I haven't talked to her all that many times really but the times I have met her she's always been friendly and chatty.
But she's taking advantage of my best mate. My mate's not well, she's got a serious illness that could make her very ill at any time. But she's constantly having to babysit for this girl or go to pick up her relatives, drive her around, take her shopping, take her round the pub. It's endless, there's always something she wants her to do. And she's always having to pay for things for her because my best mates got a job and she's never got money. I don't think it would be so bad if my friend got invited places too but she never is, it's like she only gets to go places with her when this other girl needs to be somewhere but can't get a lift.
Like last year. I don't get to see my best friend so often anymore, she lives too far away. But I went to stay with her early last year. It was so nice, we got to sit around and have a chat and catch up. But then this girl rings her up and because we said we were in the pub she had to come along too. I really didn't mind all that much I suppose it's just I spent a lot to go there, I don't get to see her that often and it would have been nice if it was just me and her. Then we had to stay out till God knows what time while this girl got drunk. I was knackered, I hadn't slept in 2 days but we couldn't go because she hadn't finished drinking.
Today I've had my best mate in tears because this girls rung her up asking to borrow money then goes on and on about her new friend who's she's invited around. And it makes me feel bad because I know she's the only friend she has near her really. Makes me annoyed that she won't invite her out anywhere just because she'd like to spend some time with her not just because she wants something from it.
Am I being stupid about this? Should I say something or just mind my own business? I really don't want them to stop being friends just wish she'd stop taking her for granted. Don't want it to seem like I'm being nosey though when I barely know this other girl.
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