Yes, I just heard today that I do have clamydia. Was very upset coz I wasn't really expecting it. I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago and just thought I should get tested just in case and I did so here we are now.
I know it's very treatable so I'm not too worried. Just made me feel kinda dirty in a way. I haven't been doing too well lately so this was pretty much the last thing I need.
I thought I'd do the decent thing by letting my ex know that i had clamydia so I sent him a message. He sent me a very nasty message, telling he'd been tested and that he's clean and he basically called me a whore and accused me of wanting to revenge him or something (yes, our relationship did not end in a very good way). But the thing is there's no other possibility. I must have gotten it from him. I mean, I have never in my life had sex with anyoner else than him (including oral). He knows it, I know it and his reaction really hurt me. I can't think of any other way I could've gotten this.
I'm sorry to hear that hun.
Basically...if he's gonna be like that then you ARE better off without him.
I wish I had more for you sweety
Take Care
Alexx
xxx
im sorry to hear this but like u say it is treatable.
dont worry bout what ur ex says!! he obv wasnt worth it.
as long as you know the truth thats wat matters!
look after yourself x
Sorry to hear about this hun, it must be have been very upsetting for you. Try not to let your what your ex say get to you, I know that is easier said than done. You know the truth of the situation and thats all that matters. You are so much better off without a jerk like that, he is not worth your time. The good thing is that at least its treatable. Take care
Kat xxx
"Recovery is something that you have to work
on every single day and it's
something that doesn't
get a day off."
Well done for getting tested and well done for doing the decent thing.
I hope you understand that people here believe you and don't think badly of you. You sound like a good person, therefore you have nothing to be ashamed about.
Probably your ex is lying about having been tested. Sounds like he's in denial about it, whether he's been tested or not.
Glad to hear it's treatable. Good luck with that.
My friend recently found out she had chlamydia, as well as genital warts.
The guy she got it from is a prick, and tried to deny it was from him too, even though she knows for sure it was him. And even after she told him, slept with someone else.
He's not worth getting upset about, just be glad you've found out now and not later on.
and once it's sorted out at least you know you're clean.
take care
x
It's so easy to get lost in constantly having to present
whatever face you believe a person wants to see rather than your own
Thank you everybody for being so kind and understanding. I still feel ashamed but I went and got my antibiotics today and I'm supposed to take four pills tonight and then it's done. So hopefully after tomorrow this whole thing is behind me.
