What to do?

[Pixie-dust]

So i have of late found out all my friends are less than trust worthy, however i do have a gorgeous boyfriend that i do trust ,and sometimes i just need to talk about my urges etc but i don't want to bring it into our relationship i mean he knows i have done it before in a passing question but nothing more than he thinks its in the past i've been free of it for 2 months and i just need to talk and need someone to tell me starting again is a bad idea but do you think bringing it into the relationship coud ruin it and make it about self harm and my problems?

I really dont want it to become all about it as it has done previously with my friends once i had mentioned it.

Any advice or experience in this would be thanked

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thanks

pixie x x

[Too Shy]

I don't really know what advice to give, but I don't think talking to your boyfriend about your urges will necessarily make your relationship all about self-harm, etc. Sometimes you just need someone to tell you that it's not a good idea, like you said, and talking can help. :)

Maybe you could try and talk to him about it, but let him know that you're worried about it affecting your relationship too?

I hope you're ok, xx