.:Just a little question about FEARS:.

[LuckyStar]

Hey everybody!

I wasn't really sure where I should post this so it ended up in here...

I was just wonderin' if anyone has the same problem as me; fear or loss and rejection. I mean by friends and other people. A very serious one.

I've noticed that my fear of rejection has become a major problem and I find myself obsessing about it everyday. It's like I can't breathe, I'm so afraid I'll be left alone. I don't believe my new friend in my new home town really care about me and I know they're gonna dump me the moment they can. Everytime I send someone a message, I'm scared to death they're gonna send something negative and ditch me. Even thinkin' about this makes me cry. Do you know if there's anyway I can get over this fear??

And yes, I do know I have a low self esteem. But this is gettin' worse all the time.

<3 Laura

[Behind the Smile]

I have the same fear, it's difficult.
I know how you feel *cuddles*
not sure if there's a way to get over it but i'm here if you need to talk about it!
take care
x

[green.eyes]

*hugs* not sure what to suggest- maybe write down nice things they say or do so you can start to convince yourself they care. joke about it in front of them and they mighjt reassure you. keep telling yorself you're worthy of people caring and not being rejected
take care
xx

[LuckyStar]

Thanks, guys:)

It DOES help a lot to hear I'm not the only one with this problem...
I just spent weekend with my family which I think actually helped a bit. At least I know they're not gonna abandone me...

Wish I could tell my friends about this...

<3 Laura