Adult - how could i be so stupid

fairybeleiver · 13-04-2008, 05:04 PM

i got drunk with this guy i dont no 2 well and i dont even like him he reminds me too much of my ex but i ended up giving him a hand job and he really likes me

how am i going to tell him i dont like him and only did i cuz i was so drunk i didnt care

btw i dont usually drink so it dousnt take much for me to get drunk

thanks chelsie
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xbeckyx · 13-04-2008, 05:11 PM

Been there done that, the best thing to do is to be honest. If he brings it up just explain you were drunk and it won't happen again. It's better he knows sooner rather than later before he thinks it meant anything.
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Sugar and Spice · 13-04-2008, 05:15 PM

In situations like this, I am rather inclined to avoid bringing it up and just carrying on as I was before. On the occasions where that isn't really an option then the straight forward explanation is best. Just sit him down and tell him straight out that you were drunk and that you aren't looking for anything from him except friendship (if you do indeed want to still know him).

deadstar · 13-04-2008, 05:16 PM

As Becky said, it'd be better to be honest with him and explain that you wouldn't have done it if you were sober so he doesn't expect it to happen again. We've all done things we regret when we're drunk so he might have even been in a similar situation before.
Good luck hun
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Ash* · 13-04-2008, 10:55 PM

"So, the other night. It won't be happening again. Just so you know."

At least you didn't sleep with him (Y)