Needing a bit of motivation and a hug

[phoenixflames_forever]

Hey, sorry i havent been on here in a while just been having some computer problems etc...
Anyhu latley my life just seems to of turned into one sadistic soap opera, my dad dying, my gran falling down the stairs, my mam getting so depressed, my boyfriend breaking up with me sevral times and half the family turning against us. But you see i have to finish this first year of uni for me and it includes doing these two essays in a matter of days, it could be something i could finally have control of but the motivation is just not there anymore.....i was just wondering if anyone could give me a gentle kick up the bum.
Take care Phoenix xxx

[Mirabelle]

hm, it's hard to focus when it seems everything is so blah.
but yeah, as a kick in the butt... working on those essays will take your mind off of things, and you're nearly there! You nearly finished the survival race of the first year of university!
I know how you feel... just last week I felt like giving up uni... and that after 5 years of studies. I'm finishing in two months... I HAVE to finish in two months.
It's stressful and all, but at least, I don't have time to think about how pathetic my life is.
C'mon!! it's two tiny essays! each can be done in two days, maximum!
and if you do manage, reward yourself with something nice *nods* It works:P

[deadstar]

Hey hun
It sounds like you've been having a really difficult time :(
You CAN DO THESE ESSAYS!!!
You'll feel so good when you've done them. Show everyone you are in control and succeeding.
Maybe do an hours work then give yourself a treat for ten minutes (go to poundland or somewhere and buy yourself a little present?) so you've got something to look forwards to once you've done them?
Good luck *hugs*
xxxxx

[phoenixflames_forever]

Thank you for your replies it means alot *gets head into gear*, right am gonna give it another go....
Take care x

[phoenixflames_forever]

yay five hundred more words to go on the first essay and some references woop! ...... although i did start that one a couple of days ago...

[deadstar]

yay :D!!!
keep going!
xxxxx

[Jellihejj]

i feel for you, i hope you managed to get them on time :)

i also hope you managed to give yourself a nice treat too :)


:)

[phoenixflames_forever]

*does insane dance* essay are done and handed in yay, one is not completley useless ...lol
Thanks for replying guys xxxxx

[Scumbelina]

Great work! I bet it feels better you've done them & they're out the way

[phoenixflames_forever]

Yeah i can finally do other stuff without feeling guilty about my essays :) exams soon but still am having my moment lol :) xxx

[phoenixflames_forever]

and the treat is ben and jerrys phish food ice cream ....... am gonna get you little fishy...... :D

[Whispered Secret]

Wooh! Well done for finishing them. Ben and Jerrys; I love that stuff!